Ok first off
lets pick a goal fat loss or muscle gain
if fat loss - subtract 500 from the above so maybe aim for 1900 to start with and aim to lose 1 to 2lbd per week. adjust cals if needed.
for muscle gain do the opposite. Start at 2600 - 2900cals and add 200 every two weeks until you notive 1-2lbs gain each week.
The problem with your goal to do both is extremly difficult and impossible for most as you can see.
Pick a proper training programme.
Starting strenght, stronglifts, push pull legs are prob your best starting point
Keep it simple
A - SQUAT, BENCH, BENT OVER ROW
B - SQUAY, OH PRESS- DEADLIFT
Alternate between a and b and do 5sets for 5reps and add weight each session.
log your progress.
log your food intake fitday.com or myfitnesspal.com
read the beginners articles on this site and get a meal plan from
www.mealplansite.com