Dating an older woman

Mate I havent even read a word of this thread, I see an old yen im 22 I think and she is 34,35. I am so pissed at the moment that I cant even see what I am writing etc.
I will answer what ever you said tommorow when I sober up etc. I just seen the old woman thread and thought yes thats me join the fvckin gang.
I dont no if I am pissed because of her or not ?

 

RACK

Blue_Lagoon3000


She's alright, but not as fit as her daughter lol she is really is hot but not nailed her yet. Can't wait to though.

 
I've highlighted the key word!!! 

Lol she seems keen, she came round for a cup of tea and we've been texting since, She's nice + young so easier to deal with lol

My last girlfriend was 8 years older than me, she 30 and me 22. Didn't get stick off my mates, but got a lot of hassle from my parents, well actually just my mum.

My mum HATED her. Nothing to do with her personality, she just hated the fact that she was older and had been married before, and I guess she just assumed that she had an ulterior motive with me and planned on marrying me and taking half my money. (The fact that I have no money and will still be in college for the next 3-4 years, and the fact that she already was married to a very well off guy who gave her all the money she could want, AND the fact that she didn't take any money whatsoever off her husband in the separation agreement even though she was entitled to half... well none of this seemed to make any difference to my mum.)

The only thing I would say is: you say you don't see a future with this and neither does she. But, that was the same when I started with my ex. She started it as just a fun post-divorce fling, I started it as a fun affair with an older married woman. Neither of us expected us to fall in love with each other, but we did, and the fact that we are at such different stages in our lives (she wants kids soon, I don't want to get married any time in the next 10 years, by which time she'll be FOURTY) meant that it made it very, very hard to end it. Be careful!

your prob not the only guy she has dated with ladish mates

not all 34 year olds are the same ;)

have allways dated older women my self.my girlfirend is 30,i am 23.makes no difrence to me.not like its a great age gap.althoe she still gets id for cigs haha

Thanks for the advice Kane. Like I said, I want to keep it casual. If that is going to be an issue , I will handle it when it arises.
 
At the moment, I am just enjoying the ride

billy_boy


Thanks for the advice Kane. Like I said, I want to keep it casual. If that is going to be an issue , I will handle it when it arises.
 
At the moment, I am just enjoying the ride

lol

When i was 21 i lived with a 32 yr old for 3 yrs,best education a lad can get no joke.
If your happy screw them in a not literal sense and screw her.

Of course assuming she is older>


Not older>


  M1lf Cool, GGILF not so muchio,its all relative are 94 yr olds good in bed? in my experiance not all of em

if your happy then whats the problem 

If you are not bothered about this relationship then why not be honest with her, because everyone seems to be saying it is not a problem - I don't actually see a problem with the age gap but I do see a problem that she has a child and as you have said she is very careful.  Maybe she thinks you are actually worth more than just a casual shag, why mess with her emotions and also when there is more than just the two of you to think about.

peagreen


If you are not bothered about this relationship then why not be honest with her, because everyone seems to be saying it is not a problem - I don't actually see a problem with the age gap but I do see a problem that she has a child and as you have said she is very careful.  Maybe she thinks you are actually worth more than just a casual shag, why mess with her emotions and also when there is more than just the two of you to think about.

exactly what I've been thinking, as it would appear you are showing your true age by not stopping to think about what you have actually said, and by that I mean the fact that you say due to her having a kid she is careful about who she dates, and she is dating you but all it seems you want to do is have a laddish bit of fun with an "older woman"
 
very selfish if thats the case, as peagreen said, why mess with her emotions when there is a third person, (thats her kid just so you know) to consider

As others have said just take this as a bit of fun-everbody should have at some time or another dated an older woman-its like being able to have a taste of the future without actually leaving the present.

One thing i would say an older women MAY be more settled and wish to settle down,and also if older may have kids so be careful with kids involved,not fair on anyone if it goes t1ts up

never dated an older women so couldnt comment.  always like the thought of it, but when it comes to it , it feels weird flirting with an older women.  dunno why but feel wrong lol!!

tbh i wd love to bang a **** tho!!  :-)

Yeh cheers for the advice lads.
 
Just treating it as a rites of passage experience.
 
 

RedHotF


I don't see age as a problem.

16 marrying 55?