New Relationship Advice

 

If it was me, id not allow myself get emotionally attached, she doesn't sound like the kinda girl I'd want to have a relationship with.
 
You know she's a cheater and a party girl, this would be enough to create alarm bells for me.

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Enjoy the good times, don't get too sucked in.

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Yea I know ****ing thing is its the first girl in years to actually make me want to settle down..... Confussing times :(

 
Ya but it sounds like she has no interest in settling down. 

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You may or may not hit it off. You think you have but you have to understand that you both have different lifestyles. You cant come in and change how someone is, same way you wouldnt expect her to tell you to stop going to the gym etc. Either except it, enjoy your time together or move on.
 
If your already gettin annoyed after 2 months, then i guess you already know your answer. Check back with her in about 5 years. She might have calmed down by then...

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I was going to say the same as wheels, hang on tight and enjoy the ride while it lasts (!) but if you like her that much and she makes you happy then you have to ask HER what her thoughts on the relationship are. Depending on what she says you may have a difficult choice to make, stay and enjoy her company as long as you can knowing that its going to be a relatively non-serious relationship or split and be a misery with no hot girl! Seriously, I know what I would do!

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JR1912


Sounds about right blade... **** sitution tho :(

Agree with wheels too. Have a chat with her and see what she says too. It all depends on how old you are, what your into, how settled you feel etc. Also you say you have been single for a while, the fact that you have connected with someone finally will be massively exaggerated. Not saying your feelings arnt 100% true, but just take it easy fella.
 
If all else fails....... ask her if shes got any friends who dont get poked soo much and are less party animals..... lol

What age are ye both?

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You are going to try and change her. It wont work.
 
Enjoy it and dont get emotionally attached. If you cant do that then move on.
 
Dont let the fact that she is easy on the eye cloud your judgment.

I would talk to her mate, dont go on the advice of people online who dont know you and her from adam! 
 
Good luck and I love your confidence about bagging another beauty!

Nip it in the bud dude, speaking from experience, if she was settled with you she wouldn't be a party girl no more, head up and crack on !

It's a tough one, she obviously has a great personality and is very socialable.
I've been in a similar situation with a girl like you describe. Needless to say it ended pretty painfully BUT people can change if they want, but you need to know where you stand firstly. If you could detach yourself that would be ideal. Ask yourself what you really want and whether or not you could handle it if she didn't change her lifestyle.