jesus mary and joseph....arguing with women rant

jango

Reborn


In all seriousness seems like theres some underlying structural issues with your relationship.

If you dont find someway of communicating better you're in for a miserable time.

Crikey!! Reborn has been bodysnatched by JK2!!!

Well some people thought our "feud" was a ploy to disguise that we are actually one and the same...

THATS WHEN IT IS A GOOD TIME TO HAVE A OFF SWITCH LIKE ME

You need to get a shed!-thats what sheds are for! When ever the Mrs starts to go off on one head for the Man bunker(Garden shed or garage).  Always have an ongoing project in the shed or garage that you can escape to.  Works a treat.  You'd be better off arguing with a bread roll.

LOL at Man bunker,like the one in Malcolm in the middle

thats true deffo have a shed or loft.............  wonder if this is what we train for as children making dens

Yes passed down in the genes some survival trait lol

http://www.newzonfire.com/Images/menvswomen.html

Mate these Homeware stores have been making millions off marketing these 'Man bunkers' as sheds!-but only men know what they really are.  Weve got a garage and not one of our cars has ever been in it!

bigdownunder
i nearly wet myself at the "bestter arguing with a bread roll comment"
oh, its too true lmao

and infidel
your so right about tem having no logical pattern


reborn
while i can see why you would think that, the relationship has had its ups, and plenty of its downs, and to be fair its still relatively young as relationships go -
the thing is, these random pointless arguments DO end up with a positive outcome EVENTUALLY, it just takes an amazingly large amount of arguing about bullshine to get to the point - and we deal with it and move on -

the rant was not about the arguing, as its healthy imo to argue now and again, but the focus was on the actual structure and total randomness of the argument

we both have big personal individual stresses at the moment, and another stress that we are together on - and the underlying problem as you put it, is we both want to move to the other side of the world to new zealand, and its so stressful not just being able to get and go - ie visa and applications and jobs, houses etc etc - all the ****e we could do without at the moment


but hey ho - some of the comments on here have made the thread a joy to read and if only that comes out of the argument we had (but more has besides) then it would be worht it for that

thanks peeps

Brucieflea


I break out the irritation dance,if mines left to go into one it can last 2-3 days,so letting it pass wont work.

I have the worlds most irritating song and dance,it cant fail cos either she will crack up laughing or get more wound up by this than the original sin,either way im off the hook.

Me,omg here we go ,ok"do,do,dooo,"
Her "DO NOT START WITH THAT STUPID DANCE ARRGGH"
me "do,do,dooo,do the irritation do the irritation"

By verse 64 its all over,if the kids arent about it usually comes with a strip to the kecks at the end,then i pull my kecks up really high and run about.

When its all passed i just say "yes the dance is nonsense and a waste of time ,and it winds you up,that EXACT same as the arguments,get my point?

 


Brilliant !! Arguing is a total waste of time and energy.  Dancing is not.

The last time I was in the eye of the storm!
I just came out with "I'm going to throw your present away I dont are how much it cost!"
She then calmed down really quickly and started enquiring about this 'present'.
Moral of the story: Lie and spend lots of money!

Stercus accidit


The last time I was in the eye of the storm!
I just came out with "I'm going to throw your present away I dont are how much it cost!"
She then calmed down really quickly and started enquiring about this 'present'.
Moral of the story: Lie and spend lots of money!

Excellent!!!

carlsworth

these random pointless arguments DO end up with a positive outcome EVENTUALLY,

 
Yes,
 
makeup sex...the only reason to argue!