Not been posting on here a lot recently but as of ten minutes ago I have some excellent MT general section fodder.
What would you have done in the following situation.
Two months ago your 14yr old son had given his broken X-Box to a older lad he was friendly with , as this lad said he knew someone who would fix it in return for the limited edition 'skin' (Halo 3) it had.After loosing touch a little with this lad through moving house and changing circle of friends your son only speaks to said lad through the medium of x-box live, starts to feel he is going to get ripped off and more recently cant seem to contact him at all.
Finally you decide you need to intervene and clarify with your son that at no point was it suggested that he had relinquished ownership of his x-box and that no compensation had been given to him . After this is clarified you drive your son through to the lads house. You remain in the car while your son knocks at the door. You can neither see the door nor be seen from the door and as such are not behaving in a threatening manner.
The lad in question is not at home but his stepfather tells your son that he will pass on the message that he had called and wanted his x-box back.
The next day when you come home from work your son informs you that he has spoken to 'the lad' on x-box live and was told that he would get his x-box back next week or maybe the week after but that if his dad (you) came through to the lads house again being threatening then this lad would "kick off" and his dad (you) would "get it with a bar or a bat".
Your son tries to contact the lad again on x-box to no avail. Your son knows where this lads current location is. He is at a friends house. His friends lives with his mother and sister and your son does not believe there are any more males in the house.
The lad in question is either 18 or 19 , you have met him briefly and took him as a bit of a emo-esque gimp at the time. You do not know much about his family or his circle of friends.
Think thats all the salient facts. Sorry if any of it's confusing.
Right off you go!
<message edited by PAGAN on 18 November 2009 16:52>
No biggie like, there are a lot worse things for you than using steroids, I mean I probably shouldn't have been smoking crack or getting into bar fights at your age TBH - drab4