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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 17:05:32   
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Right now I think i'd just say "Fat I may be, and next year I shall be ripped. But you will always be ugly" (if you hear a rumbling it's Churchill turning in his grave!). Actually i'd probably just tell them to "**** Off". It's easier. And you look less of a ponce.



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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 17:12:15   
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People come in and go "eeuuurrrghhhhh look at that thats disgusting they look like freaks! And look at the WOMEN!! Oh my god they are like MEN that is REPULSIVE"


That kind of thing always annoys me. It's a womans body to do with as she wishes. What the ****'s it got to do?? Would they stand their looking at a gallery of fat people (or, failing that, a Mirror) and say "Gosh. They look like freaks... Look at the flab... They look like beached whales..."??? Whether you like the body-builder (of either gender) look or not you have to have to admire the dedication, self-control and hard work that's gone into it.

Or you could just take the piss whilst scoffing BK, if that's easier.

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 17:53:19   
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There's a woman at work who always has a pop about me bein too skinny etc. and although it doesnt offend me, its simply the fact she makes comments thats irritates me. Last week i thought i'd get react by saying the following 'yeah, but you're fat and ugly so whose the real winner?" - she stormed out of the room crying i then got stick for being harsh to her!!! Does my head in. Its alrite for skinny ppl to be slagged but when its a fat person, its seen as harsh!

If i get skinny comments i just use the line above, and i can get away with it because im extremely good looking. Its great they have no comeback.

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 18:11:54   
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quote:

If i get skinny comments i just use the line above, and i can get away with it because im extremely good looking. Its great they have no comeback.

Not quite!
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then got stick for being harsh to her!!!

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 18:29:54   
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my little brother says im fat in the belly and it sticks out too much lol and my pap says im getting fat in the face now oh well my aim is to get bigger so cant complain

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 18:32:46   
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I have been told I look ill

makes all the hard work worth it !!!...n't


Got the same when i was cutting,lads at work kept saying i looked like an aids victim

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 19:52:22   
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Random thread bump alert


Indeed.

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 21:56:49   
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i dont mind it when people say i am gettin a bit fat i just no that they don't have a fcuking clue!!

Im 5ft9 and 14st- i'm pretty lean but have got a pretty large waist!

Anyway its when people tell me im skinny when my goat may be got!
Usually I don't let it bother me i just use it! Makes me more pumped up to throw more weight about in the gym (not literally of course)

People commenting onmy man boobs lately has really been ****ing me off!Q!

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 22:15:49   
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yes i get them but tbh they go over my head (once ive stopped crying that is)
nah it takes more than a few negative comments to knock my confidance.

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 22:27:11   
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ye i get the odd one i suppose im not really that big or that cut so attention is usually focused on someone bigger or more cut

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 22:38:09   
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ORIGINAL: drab4


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ORIGINAL: drab4

Had someone insult my physique to my face many years ago. When I was about 21. I was wasted at the time (on acid) so I didn't do anything. Ruined my trip though, and spoiled my night. Which was his aim I guess

I caught up with him a couple of weeks later and gave him the hiding of his life




why would u give him a hiding 2 weeks later? either do it at the time or not at all IMO


Thanks for the advice. This was many years ago now, but I will bear that in mind for next time

I am not sure if you have done much acid in your time (I am guessing not from your reply?), but it makes you think a bit strangely. It can certainly cloud one's decision making abilities

If you are genuinely asking me why I gave him a beating 2 weeks later, the answer is because I saw him and became angry, partly at the thought of him mocking me, and partly at the thought that the only reason he mocked me in the first place was because he knew I was on acid and so he could get away with it. He took advantage of the situation, fair enough. I kicked the sh't out of him for it, fair enough. All is fair in love and war eh




lol

thats like me saying:

'i was on test at the time, and my mate new this and bought all the tuna and chicken in the only nearby shop, it ruined my gains. next time i saw him i knocked the sh1t out of him'



cut the guy some slack. he's got mental health issues

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 22:49:39   
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Sometimes it stems from jealousy of your physique.

Other times they may genuinely mean it

If its down to jealousy then take it as a compliment.

If its a negative comment and they genuinely mean it ie if they ask if you have put on weight and you are cutting then thats another story

It may come down to various reasons, such as the clothes you may be wearing, the angle they may have seen you at, perhaps your posture was different, ie slouching, making your stomach bulge out, making you appear 'fat'

The other possibility is that they find you unpleasing to the eye.

They may say 'ewww, look a the size of your belly' or 'yuk, look at those muscles coming out of your neck'

They may actually be disgusted by certain aspects of your physique and just spit it out without thinking. While this lacks tact, sometimes it happens, people just say things that come into their head without thinking.

Maybe certain aspects of your personality grate them and this makes them look at you in disgust in general, the comment may not actually be solely about your physique. They may have just taken a dislike to you, hence making looking at you an unpleasant task.

The comment may be about more than just your body, similar to arguing in a relationship may not actually be about the petty thing you are arguing about but about other unresolved issues.

At the end of the day its how you take it, you can either take it to heart and cry about it or use it to fuel your desire to train harder and eat better.

I know which one I would choose


1ntense








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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 23:49:19   
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ORIGINAL: gunshow3000


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ORIGINAL: swift


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ORIGINAL: drab4


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ORIGINAL: drab4

Had someone insult my physique to my face many years ago. When I was about 21. I was wasted at the time (on acid) so I didn't do anything. Ruined my trip though, and spoiled my night. Which was his aim I guess

I caught up with him a couple of weeks later and gave him the hiding of his life




why would u give him a hiding 2 weeks later? either do it at the time or not at all IMO


Thanks for the advice. This was many years ago now, but I will bear that in mind for next time

I am not sure if you have done much acid in your time (I am guessing not from your reply?), but it makes you think a bit strangely. It can certainly cloud one's decision making abilities

If you are genuinely asking me why I gave him a beating 2 weeks later, the answer is because I saw him and became angry, partly at the thought of him mocking me, and partly at the thought that the only reason he mocked me in the first place was because he knew I was on acid and so he could get away with it. He took advantage of the situation, fair enough. I kicked the sh't out of him for it, fair enough. All is fair in love and war eh




lol

thats like me saying:

'i was on test at the time, and my mate new this and bought all the tuna and chicken in the only nearby shop, it ruined my gains. next time i saw him i knocked the sh1t out of him'



cut the guy some slack. he's got mental health issues

Have I?

Well that's ruined my night lol



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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 27 2008 23:55:30   
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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 0:40:32   
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ORIGINAL: drab4


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ORIGINAL: gunshow3000


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ORIGINAL: swift


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ORIGINAL: drab4


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ORIGINAL: drab4

Had someone insult my physique to my face many years ago. When I was about 21. I was wasted at the time (on acid) so I didn't do anything. Ruined my trip though, and spoiled my night. Which was his aim I guess

I caught up with him a couple of weeks later and gave him the hiding of his life




why would u give him a hiding 2 weeks later? either do it at the time or not at all IMO


Thanks for the advice. This was many years ago now, but I will bear that in mind for next time

I am not sure if you have done much acid in your time (I am guessing not from your reply?), but it makes you think a bit strangely. It can certainly cloud one's decision making abilities

If you are genuinely asking me why I gave him a beating 2 weeks later, the answer is because I saw him and became angry, partly at the thought of him mocking me, and partly at the thought that the only reason he mocked me in the first place was because he knew I was on acid and so he could get away with it. He took advantage of the situation, fair enough. I kicked the sh't out of him for it, fair enough. All is fair in love and war eh




lol

thats like me saying:

'i was on test at the time, and my mate new this and bought all the tuna and chicken in the only nearby shop, it ruined my gains. next time i saw him i knocked the sh1t out of him'



cut the guy some slack. he's got mental health issues

Have I?

Well that's ruined my night lol





Instead of admitting your psychotic behaviour in the incident you related, you attempt to excuse it as "all is fair in love and war". The first step is to admit that you have a problem..my rates are quite reasonable and im sure we can come to some arrangement

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 0:49:51   
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bumped into a guy I hadn't seen in about a year and the first thing he said was "your nuts must be like raisins"
I dunno if it was meant in a derogatory manner, but I took it as a compliment

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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 2:22:40   
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My 8 year old is doing my head in, I'm going to really scratch him if he carries on... and mean it, fcuk what the RSPCA say!!!
He gives me my hug at night before bed, pats my belly while going, "chubby, chubby, chubby, chubby, chubby, chubby" in a really fast deep monotone voice.
It rocks me to the core.

But my eldest makes me feel better whn he's plaing smackdown VS raw on the play station and says, "look dad, I'm gonna FU yer"... at first I thought, no FU, saying FU rather than fcuk you doesn't mak it OK so stop the swearing but it's actually a move and the person he was saying I was, was Batista... not sure if it's because of my muscles or my chin moheacan beard line thing but I don't care... Batista and me in the same sentance is good enough for me.
There's the pleasure pain balance restored for my self consciousness.



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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 4:21:07   
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Instead of admitting your psychotic behaviour in the incident you related, you attempt to excuse it as "all is fair in love and war". The first step is to admit that you have a problem..my rates are quite reasonable and im sure we can come to some arrangement

LOL

Very good. However, I think only one of us has offered "rates" to strangers over the internet. I agree that the first step is admitting that you have a problem




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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 7:52:29   
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I used to quite a lot being a chubby child, but now they just kinda shut up as im bigger than them and they know i can crush their torso using only my bicep.



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RE: Derogatory Comments about your physique - Apr. 28 2008 10:50:19   
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I refer to these more... Back handed compliments.
I get asked by close friends and family are you putting on weight? Looks like you've lost weight... You look like a man... Junky etc...
Yes when i bulk i look tubbier, when im cutting obviously i look slimmer, and yes i use drugs to achieve my physique.
They dont bother me really.
The comments about i know this guy bigger than you... That makes me laugh, chances are, they dont and besides which-im a woman, i wont ever have 20inch arms try as i may... And the comments i know this woman bigger than you... Wel i know that 9x out of 10 they dont because iv not seen a female my size, and thoughs that are, well there's only a handful in this world that are,

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