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how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:41:04
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trixta
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womens advice and lads too please.
basically,apart from my first gf,almost all my sexual adventures have been where ive let lasses cop a feel,or met up and then just f*cked,but i do get lasses way more attractive showing interest,and theres a few times where ive had to backpedal cos ive made someone uncomfortable,or a bit nervous,cos im used to getting lasses into bed quick.....
so im looking for a bit of advice on being a bit more steady and not making some attractive lasses think im a prick,or too full on.
cheers
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:43:27
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get them drunk enough and you wont need to LOL sign of a decent girl imo if they wont **** you straight away
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:44:18
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Simple easy women easy locations,nice girls nice locations,you wouldnt go to Maccies and expect prime steak,or go to a ford dealer and get a 911
go to places that intresting women,that may share an intrest with you may hang out,My tip charity work,you feel good for doing it,you help iothers and you meet girls who are not into being out for no1 and they will get to know you on a personal non judgemental basis
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:44:25
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take your time,be patient .
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:49:19
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Thats the best post in ages, taking up charity work to get a pull. 
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:49:49
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Crack a few out before going out to meet women. You'll be able to engage in a conversation without having the thought of sex pop into your head every few moments.
The downside is that if you meet someone who just wants sex, your performance may well be sub-par.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:50:09
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i'm trying to think of a humerous response, probably to do with your penis but can't.
don't be the one who goes in for the first kiss/invites back to house etc. let them do the work
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 20:54:52
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IMO never be all over a women,if you act like she is ok it works better.
If you leave it all cool,she may either think oh he seems hard to get or is used to being in control,or takes a lot of women out,rather than someone who is just out for sex
Chill out enjoy her company,let her enjoy yours and have fun that way,if you do the above IMO it works,a girl once said to me,i didnt seem so bothered,and was very relaxed did i take lots of girls out? after two dates
i said yes i used to take lots of girls out but it never got beyond one date,as they didnt capture my attetion im lucking for someone i can really enjoy being with.as this was on our second date,she felt special,she knew i wsnt a heal just after another notch
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:05:05
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IMO never be all over a women,if you act like she is ok it works better.
If you leave it all cool,she may either think oh he seems hard to get or is used to being in control,or takes a lot of women out,rather than someone who is just out for sex
Chill out enjoy her company,let her enjoy yours and have fun that way,if you do the above IMO it works,a girl once said to me,i didnt seem so bothered,and was very relaxed did i take lots of girls out? after two dates
i said yes i used to take lots of girls out but it never got beyond one date,as they didnt capture my attetion im lucking for someone i can really enjoy being with.as this was on our second date,she felt special,she knew i wsnt a heal just after another notch
I agree treater like a mate ...... ( few dead arms and headlocks with head rubs ) .... thats the way forward.
Also girls like spitting !!! and if your driving along and shes in the car and the windows down and your about to pass a nice lass she will like nothing more than you honking the horn and shouting a big " GEEERRRRR UP " !!!!
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:07:02
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quote:
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IMO never be all over a women,if you act like she is ok it works better.
If you leave it all cool,she may either think oh he seems hard to get or is used to being in control,or takes a lot of women out,rather than someone who is just out for sex
Chill out enjoy her company,let her enjoy yours and have fun that way,if you do the above IMO it works,a girl once said to me,i didnt seem so bothered,and was very relaxed did i take lots of girls out? after two dates
i said yes i used to take lots of girls out but it never got beyond one date,as they didnt capture my attetion im lucking for someone i can really enjoy being with.as this was on our second date,she felt special,she knew i wsnt a heal just after another notch
thats a good reply fella cheers,im never all over em but im fairly forward.
its a bit of a head fck tbh,i really dont want to sound arrogant as thats not me,but i posted on here about a job the other day that i went for interview for,there was a couple of lasses that made comments in my direction,and then its things like that that make me stumped as to how i small talk my way forward from some pretty forward comments from em.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:09:16
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note to self never ask for women advice on here!
trixta, stop thinking with your d1ck, that would be a good start.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:09:21
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I agree treater like a mate ...... ( few dead arms and headlocks with head rubs ) .... thats the way forward.
Also girls like spitting !!! and if your driving along and shes in the car and the windows down and your about to pass a nice lass she will like nothing more than you honking the horn and shouting a big " GEEERRRRR UP " !!!!
lmao play if you heard some of the **** i used to shout out the car with the lads when i passed my test.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:09:35
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Play
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Pretend to be embarrased and shy ........ never be modest, if anything make it seem as if your vunerable. Also pay her compliments...... stunning or beautiful are always good words.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:09:45
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I always play it kind of slow, to be honest. I just flirt, and see what happens
Usually women are pretty good at reading and displaying body language, so they'll let me know if they're interested, and whether they want to make a move or are trying to get me to make one myself. So I just go with the flow in that regard
This is all from the old days mind, I've been in a relationship for ages now, so maybe my memory is deceiving me lol
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:12:00
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trixta
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quote:
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note to self never ask for women advice on here!
trixta, stop thinking with your d1ck, that would be a good start.
haa,i dunno bigd,but i cant contain myself,especially if a lass has made the first move.
just a shame im a bit of an idiot.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:17:43
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Pretend to be embarrased and shy ........ never be modest
oi mate a lot would think your taking the piss but im gonna trust you on that.i mean i wouldnt lie,but yeah i think if im making a lass unsure it might be good to show im not really superman either.logic there.cheers.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:22:55
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Play
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Pretend to be embarrased and shy ........ never be modest
oi mate a lot would think your taking the piss but im gonna trust you on that.i mean i wouldnt lie,but yeah i think if im making a lass unsure it might be good to show im not really superman either.logic there.cheers.
I was mate... as if your warey of them and dont want to be hurt by them. They like to try and draw information out of you and work you out if you get wat i mean. Also this will keep the conversation flowing
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:42:36
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Simple Mate just talk to them and get to know them dont think with your Sperm Cells think with your Brain Cells ;) 
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:44:18
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trixta
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I was mate...
oi play dont take the piss i want to know how to be a gentleman here.
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RE: how do you play it slow? - Apr. 17 2008 21:47:02
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Play
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I was mate...
oi play dont take the piss i want to know how to be a gentleman here.
No i am serious !!!!! Im 100% gentleman and believe in chievely *sp
Im giving you good advice her trust me
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