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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 10:43:26
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 10:46:02
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Never trust a bitch
Good job she aint a bitch 
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 10:46:52
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 10:58:06
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Piegonwarrior - please dont come on to the thread and pollute it calling women bitches. Some can be, not all and the forum does have women on it you know
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:01:53
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Sorry for my ludicrous post, I accept it was disgusting.
I didnt mean for any offence, to all the women on this forum. I am sorry.
Just imo alot of women are sinister.
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:06:45
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because your a total arse towards them maybe?
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:09:05
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Yeah - I dont mind showing her off at all. She's a stunning girl. On MT there is little chance anyone would seriously hit on her at all, its just the internet, and internet has lots of boobies etc LOL I'm proud of her, she's really blossomed in the last year (been together a year today, hurray us!).
I do come across as insecure to her, and thats why i'm trying to deal with it so I can stop being like this. I'm trying to get inside my head and work out how to stop it. I sure dont want to suffocate her mentally (or physically LOL).
We are a great couple (i'm really proud she's my GF, never had one like her who loves me to bits regardless of everything!) I think, and thats why i'm trying to better myself for her 
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:10:30
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Seems like its a bit of insecurity mate. Though i wouldnt have been impressed if somebody had commented on my other half breasts whilst i was there! My other half is very attractive indeed, and sometimes it does make me a little worried. But (and this is the quality that made me want to marry her) she doesnt feel the need to get attention from other blokes, and shuts them down as soon as they make a comment which she may deem as unfit. Even if the dumbass may think its a compliment.
The sad fact is mate, if somebody is going to cheat, they are going to cheat. No amount of insecurity or jealousy will stop it from happening. If you trust her, then the best thing you can do is just crack on. If you do not like the way blokes speak to her or act around her, maybe thats a conversation you should have with her? Personally if somebody acts in a way that i find uncomfortable with my other half, i have a quiet word with them. In fact my friends go out of their way to stay 'in line' because of 'quiet words' ive had with some of my group!
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:36:08
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Papa - you stand out from most other men due to your size and physique so you must get some unwarranted attention, possibly from females (passing comments, whistles, offers of a date, that sort of thing).
How does it make you feel?
Good, maybe a little boost to your self-esteem?
Would you take any of it any further?
Presumably not seeing as you love your GF and you seem to be in a great relationship.
So really no harm's being done.
Now look at it from the other side. Your GF is attractive, her confidence has increased since her boob job so that in itself is an attractive quality, she looks better. Ultimately this is going to increase attention towards her, same as what you probably receive.
It's possible she may enjoy it, although not encourage it, and ultimately it might make her feel a little better having her looks/figure validated by the comments/looks she now gets.
Again, it's totally harmless, it mkes her happy, you should feel proud because you're the one she's coming home to, so try not to hit the self-destruct button and get eaten up with jealousy and rage over something you have no control over.
Can you stop someone cheating on you? I think not.
You can do everything in your power to ensure your partner has no desire to stray but if your partner has a wandering eye, little can be done to prevent it.
Does everyone cheat? Thankfully no, so don't assume everyone will.
Can you stop this attention? Yes, very simply.
You stop training, she dresses like a grandmother, neither of you leave the house.
Be happy in your relationship, be proud you're with each other, enjoy each other's company, don't take each other for granted.
My wife often tells me so-and-so was checking her out or someone tried to chat her up. I know we're very happy together and I know these little confidence boosters makes her feel desirable still, so I have no need to be jealous. It's possible she could cheat on me, but it's possible she could be struck by a bus so I don't treat each day with her as if it were our last, same as I don't assume she'll cheat with every man that so much as looks in her direction..
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:43:13
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Good post - it makes one hell of a lot of sense. Thanks for taking the time to write that up. Thats really made things clearer. Never had seen it like that tbh, well maybe in a little and fragmented way but that makes it all a lot clearer in my head
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:53:53
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Why did she get the boob job?
Im assuming most girls get one because they obviously want bigger boobs...because they think, and maybe think other people think..they are too small...so hence they would most likely want to show them off..so really what did you expect
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:55:53
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If they hit on her Vandrab them
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:57:42
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I have to agree with LM, you have to turn a positive spin on the attention your gf is receiving but ultimately she is yours and she comes home to you - the man she loves. Accept the attention, that it is confirmation of what you see as the most beautiful girl in the world and you are not alone, it gives her the boost she needs and it should boost your ego that you are the chosen one.
Protect each other and admire each others best qualities, look at the positives and turn it in to something that makes you feel good. Do not hang off each other but reassure each other, all it takes is a look, a smile and a tender kiss in passing when you are out. Its all it takes, its all you need and the feelings that you have will disappear, confidence in your own skin is a hugely attractive commodity, because it goes deeper than skin deep.
Revel in what you have because it sounds fantastic.
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:58:58
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Why did she get the boob job?
Im assuming most girls get one because they obviously want bigger boobs...because they think, and maybe think other people think..they are too small...so hence they would most likely want to show them off..so really what did you expect
She got them because she's secretly wanted larger boobs for ages and I love big boobs so it was a match made in heaven. I even paid for them LOL
I don't mind them being shown off (as shown by the other thread  ). Even without the boob job i still had the same prob mind, so don't focus too much on the boobs
And I do realise it will make more people lust after her yes.
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 11:59:12
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so hence they would most likely want to show them off..so really what did you expect
Not true in all cases. I know women who have had boob jobs, and they do nothing to try and 'show them off'. They just had it done because they were tired of being self consious of their breasts.
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 12:36:51
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As for the trust issue with men around your missus I can understand that after seeing it at first hand with the way some men are around women even if they have no hope they still persist like a few members on here really who dont care that the women is seeing somene else 
I trust my missus and tbh I don't really care if she cheats on me if its gonna happen then its gonna happen
If you really dont trust your G/f and feel she will cheat on you then you either need to
Move on
Start to trust her more (And put these nasty thoughts in the back of your mind as they aint doing you anygood and will make you worse in the long run)
Or prepare to hear the immortal words 'Ive cheated on you'
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 12:45:06
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I am genreall a jealous person hate it when the misses speaks to blokes i dont know does my head in maily because i want to know if i can trust them. I find it really hard to control my jealousy but sometimes i have to bite my tongue in fear of being seen as an ar$ehole.
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Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 12:50:17
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Can't say things like this bother me. Men are nobs, nothing I can do or say to change that. I trust my girlfriend, if I didn't I wouldn't be with her so I just take it as it is and take solice in the fact its me she comes home to.
TIO, your avatar is looking very homo-erotic sunshine
Give us a smile
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 13:14:42
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I get this a lot.
My GF is in the salon and she get all sorts of comments and people trying to flirt and asking for her number and stuff.
She has blonde hair and has a pretty face so she gets attention. She doesn't wear provocative clothes so she's not looking for attention.
1 mate have said a bit too much as well in the past which was uncomfortable and I was cofused whether I should give him a crack or not as he was drunk and the comment was made to me.
The same one came round to see if she was OK when we split for a few weeks years ago so I know I wouldn't trust him BUT I would trust her to give him a black eye if he pushed it.
I don't like it, especially people trying to flirt while she's at work... I don't exactly worry bout it though as people used to flirt with me but the occasional negative thought goes through my head about it but I would never say anything.
People beeping or whistling when I'm with her annoys me to death though, I will not accept that full stop.
People have made comments about me too her, I'm not good lucking but some just like muscles don't they so there you go LOL to be honest it's nice to know but embarrassing.
At the end of the day we are not married, we chose to be with each other, we both know we would not have a problem finding another partner afterwards or whatever.
I understand how you feel though, many men probably go out with uglier girls for this reason (and vice versa).
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RE: Is anyone else like me with GF's... - Apr. 21 2008 13:27:47
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I feel exactly the same, I trust her 100% its other blokes I dont trust, especially when shes on a night out, I made a post about this a while back, I cant find it now though.
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