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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 21 2008 23:26:41
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Craig W
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 21 2008 23:42:40
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Just don't get emotionally attached or it will all end in tears 
Yours!!!! When her other half finds out 
I've been the bit on the side a couple of times-sh*t myself when I met one of the hubbies by accident-looked like grizzly adams 
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 21 2008 23:47:36
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great call AK , that is a motto I live by
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 0:07:15
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I am, and have been since June 07.
Prepare to be.......... Blackmailed! 
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 0:24:01
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No, don't think I could live with myself.
A fella I used to work years ago with was doing it tho, when the hubby found out, he paid a few heavies to break both his legs.
They threw in two broken hands for free.
The pr1ck was in hospital for over 6 weeks.
He was a cnut anyway and deserved every bit of it.
He told everyone he was in a motorbike crash, but everyone knew what happened.
Don't know what happened to the missus.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 14:12:00
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No, don't think I could live with myself.
A fella I used to work years ago with was doing it tho, when the hubby found out, he paid a few heavies to break both his legs.
They threw in two broken hands for free.
The pr1ck was in hospital for over 6 weeks.
He was a cnut anyway and deserved every bit of it.
He told everyone he was in a motorbike crash, but everyone knew what happened.
Don't know what happened to the missus.
If someone can't hang on to their partner, that's them & them partner's problem... having your legs broken for having sex is a hilariously over the top reaction.
Adultery/unfaithfulness is IME, much more common than anyone realises or is willing to admit to.
It has been estimated that false fatherhood runs at about 10% in the US. Do you think it's much different here in the UK?
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 14:26:00
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nope! and ive too much respect for myself to all that happen me
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 16:29:57
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ORIGINAL: Dan Nukem
No, don't think I could live with myself.
A fella I used to work years ago with was doing it tho, when the hubby found out, he paid a few heavies to break both his legs.
They threw in two broken hands for free.
The pr1ck was in hospital for over 6 weeks.
He was a cnut anyway and deserved every bit of it.
He told everyone he was in a motorbike crash, but everyone knew what happened.
Don't know what happened to the missus.
If someone can't hang on to their partner, that's them & them partner's problem... having your legs broken for having sex is a hilariously over the top reaction.
The emotional heart ache for SOME cannot be compared to physical pain
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Adultery/unfaithfulness is IME, much more common than anyone realises or is willing to admit to.
However, I agree with this
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 16:44:23
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ORIGINAL: Dan Nukem
No, don't think I could live with myself.
A fella I used to work years ago with was doing it tho, when the hubby found out, he paid a few heavies to break both his legs.
They threw in two broken hands for free.
The pr1ck was in hospital for over 6 weeks.
He was a cnut anyway and deserved every bit of it.
He told everyone he was in a motorbike crash, but everyone knew what happened.
Don't know what happened to the missus.
If someone can't hang on to their partner, that's them & them partner's problem... having your legs broken for having sex is a hilariously over the top reaction.
Adultery/unfaithfulness is IME, much more common than anyone realises or is willing to admit to.
It has been estimated that false fatherhood runs at about 10% in the US. Do you think it's much different here in the UK?
Have you ever been in love or had a serious relationship?
Do you know the words deceit, treachery or adultery?
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 18:39:09
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Don't know what happened to the missus.
public execution?
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Have you ever been in love or had a serious relationship?
Do you know the words deceit, treachery or adultery?
yes of course, it happens & you just get over it, dont you?
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 18:48:50
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ORIGINAL: Dan Nukem
No, don't think I could live with myself.
A fella I used to work years ago with was doing it tho, when the hubby found out, he paid a few heavies to break both his legs.
They threw in two broken hands for free.
The pr1ck was in hospital for over 6 weeks.
He was a cnut anyway and deserved every bit of it.
He told everyone he was in a motorbike crash, but everyone knew what happened.
Don't know what happened to the missus.
If someone can't hang on to their partner, that's them & them partner's problem... having your legs broken for having sex is a hilariously over the top reaction.
Adultery/unfaithfulness is IME, much more common than anyone realises or is willing to admit to.
It has been estimated that false fatherhood runs at about 10% in the US. Do you think it's much different here in the UK?
I read it's 20% in the UK. I do not know the figures for the US
I agree that having someone crippled for having sex is an over-reaction, not only that but it reeks of organised crime, meaning that the "innocent party" who was cheated on is obviously a criminal in the first place. If someone paid some lads to do me over for shagging their Mrs, I would have them and their whole family killed. A stupid over-reaction to a stupid over-reaction. Where would that all end I wonder? The end of the world perhaps
People cheat all the time, if you decide to date someone who is a cheater by nature, or perhaps you are unable to satisfy your partner, or you are just plain unlucky, then that is your problem and nobody else's. Taking it out on other people is just nasty. If you are a nasty unpleasant person then go for it, but don't pretend it's anything other than it is
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 18:57:05
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it reeks of organised crime
to me it also suggests someone who regards his wife as his property, someone has 'violated' his property and they must be punnished
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:06:31
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it reeks of organised crime
to me it also suggests someone who regards his wife as his property, someone has 'violated' his property and they must be punnished
i sometimes in the past have felt like this, very neanderthal like attitude, but thats just as i saw it. a lot had to do with me attracting women that liked to 'feel protected' as they put it.
if you feel like you're protecting something to have it violated (horrible term!) would have been very hard to take. i hope never to be in a relationship where i feel like that again!
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:15:46
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a lot had to do with me attracting women that liked to 'feel protected' as they put it.
both parties in a relationship ideally take responsibility for thier behaviour, and that includes women who behave in a childlike and dependant manner.
It's not at all my view that the unfaithfull woman has been violated, just that the husband has behaved as is his personal property has been violated.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:20:43
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I agree that having someone crippled for having sex is an over-reaction,
Not like you mate
I think it is a perfectly normal reaction, the only difference being I would do it myself
As mentioned, if I found out my wife was cheating on me the emotional pain would be a million times worse than having every bone in my body broken
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:28:15
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If the OH cheated (which I doubt she will) I would personally see the other bloke and personally put him down for personal sastisfaction. Her clothes would then be carefully cut up and thrown in the back garden along with her pocessions carefully put (and smashed to bits) in the back garden. Would never pay to get some one to do it, where is the satisfaction?
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:38:48
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I got sh!t on by my first missus, I nearly caught them at it given another 5 minutes and they would have been full on IN MY F***IN BED. It's not nice and the feeling after everything has sunk in is sh!t that's why I'd never go the dirty on anyone, I know how it feels and I wouldn't want anyone to go through what I went through, even if I hated them and I had the chance to do their missus I'd still not do it.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:40:24
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I agree that having someone crippled for having sex is an over-reaction,
Not like you mate
I think it is a perfectly normal reaction, the only difference being I would do it myself
As mentioned, if I found out my wife was cheating on me the emotional pain would be a million times worse than having every bone in my body broken
I don't really disagree with any of that TBH!
I agree that finding out your loved one has cheated on you must be one of the worst feelings imaginable. I also agree that it's a natural reaction (for some) to want to take your hurt out on other people
That doesn't make it a morally acceptable thing to do though. We should take it for what it is, that's all I'm saying. It's lashing out and hurting others, because you've got a problem. You're taking your problem out on others
I'm not immune to over-reactions myself by any means lol. I do however try to look at my actions realistically, and judge myself accordingly. I have done bad things in my life and I recognise that fact. I do not try to gloss over the bad things with fake righteousness
At the end of the day, if you are cheated on, it is your loved one who has hurt you. A common human reaction to being hurt is to want to hurt back. We don't (usually) want to hurt our loved ones so we look around for someone else to hurt. It's that simple for many people
Thankfully I have never to my knowledge been cheated on. (And TBH would never have cared if I had been, up until my current relationship!)
I have never cheated and never will, I think it's a horrible thing to do and I can't be arsed with the lying
Oh and I don't think I've ever been a bit on the side either, not that I would necessarily have been told if I was! How many people who cheat actually tell the person they are cheating with? That's something worth bearing in mind for all us vengeful types lol
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:46:13
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For years I've been dead set against the idea, but figured.. I'm young, you only live once.. so let's do it!
Few of you may recall a thread of mine regarding a female co-worker 'leading me on' a bit, not so long ago. Turns out she really wasnt
She has a fella but considering that he's an actual c*nt, I don't feel bad in the slightest about what we're doing, it's pretty exciting tbh. I've been missing out lol
Must be other's here that are doing / have done the same?
How old are you?
Yup mate i Sh*g Any thing! But to the point yea had 3 40plus year olds and its class! One had 3 kids and one of them my age lol hahahahaha. Just dont get Caught, and make sure its not on your own door step. Tryign to get invited to a fairly big swingers party.
Any way ENJOY MATE! how old r u ? How old is she?
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