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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 19:55:56
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If the OH cheated (which I doubt she will) I would personally see the other bloke and personally put him down for personal sastisfaction.
Do you mean 'put down' in the sense of giving him an injection of sodium pentobarbital in the back of the neck, or in the sense of saying something like, "You're not very nice, are you?"
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 20:07:52
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to be honest I think its the partner that should be beaten not the guy girl that cheated with them. Happened to me in the dancing I was dancing with this burd next thing I know some c*nt comes up and pushes me didn'y know what was happening then the bouncers chucked him out said he was threatening to stab me. I asked the burb if it was her BF she denied it so carried on dancing and got off with her then her mate comes up breaks us up and said it was her boyfriend. Things like that happen all the time.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 20:16:38
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 21:17:12
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I don't really disagree with any of that TBH!
I agree that finding out your loved one has cheated on you must be one of the worst feelings imaginable. I also agree that it's a natural reaction (for some) to want to take your hurt out on other people
That doesn't make it a morally acceptable thing to do though. We should take it for what it is, that's all I'm saying. It's lashing out and hurting others, because you've got a problem. You're taking your problem out on others
I'm not immune to over-reactions myself by any means lol. I do however try to look at my actions realistically, and judge myself accordingly. I have done bad things in my life and I recognise that fact. I do not try to gloss over the bad things with fake righteousness
At the end of the day, if you are cheated on, it is your loved one who has hurt you. A common human reaction to being hurt is to want to hurt back. We don't (usually) want to hurt our loved ones so we look around for someone else to hurt. It's that simple for many people
Thankfully I have never to my knowledge been cheated on. (And TBH would never have cared if I had been, up until my current relationship!)
I have never cheated and never will, I think it's a horrible thing to do and I can't be arsed with the lying
Oh and I don't think I've ever been a bit on the side either, not that I would necessarily have been told if I was! How many people who cheat actually tell the person they are cheating with? That's something worth bearing in mind for all us vengeful types lol
Pah. Bring back the emotional reactionary Drab that I love I see exactly where you are coming from mate...but then picture yourself walking in on YIB and Pigeonwarrior 
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 21:52:34
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Hm
I'll have admins ban Pigeonwarrior just to be on the safe side
I don't think that will be necessary
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 21:54:02
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If the OH cheated (which I doubt she will) I would personally see the other bloke and personally put him down for personal sastisfaction.
Do you mean 'put down' in the sense of giving him an injection of sodium pentobarbital in the back of the neck, or in the sense of saying something like, "You're not very nice, are you?"
I a few choice smacks in the face and the like.
I'd also then go home break down and cry like a baby 
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:00:09
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Ive not been a bit on the side. The opportunity has only risen twice and both occasions I said "dump him if you feel that way and Ill think about." On one occasion it turned into a good relationship and on the other she showed her true attention seeking colours.
For me its not worth the hassle - theres too many women out there. The "danger" aspect does not appeal to me.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:02:41
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Never tbh. Have cheated on ex's at the end of relationships, but then the women have been the bits on the side. Seems more women tend to be happy to be the bit on the side and believe any speil they are given even if they know that what is being said isnt really gonna happen...
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:07:49
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to be honest I think its the partner that should be beaten not the guy girl that cheated with them.
i dont think either partner should be beaten tbh. these things happen in life to many millions of people,i think it would be better to try and work things out rather than play the blame game,(this doesnt help)
its usually both peoples fault not keeping their respective partner happy etc etc.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:22:58
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In reality i'd imagine you'd feel the rage TBH Gina. When I heard Mama's ex was asking her for a quick fcuk when I was away with work, I wanted to take his head off...
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:27:48
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In reality i'd imagine you'd feel the rage TBH Gina. When I heard Mama's ex was asking her for a quick fcuk when I was away with work, I wanted to take his head off...
yes mate these would be my initial feelings too tbh.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:29:06
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And if i'd seen him in the 1st few days I would smack him one. In fact, I still prolly would. Quite happily.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:35:14
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i can understand why mate,but what would it actually achieve?
yes you would feel better and he much worse,but it doesnt "fix" or "change" anything.
im not trying to say whats right or wrong as i would more than likley feel and do as you are explainning,but hitting the guy doesnt solve any issues between a guy and his partner (if there are any that is) and not saying there are between you obviously.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:52:02
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'Course. She just told him to fcuk off. But its disrepectful, esp when she said she was with me and very happy, only for him to reply, forget him, come and have a shag with me. Worse still he was doing it when HIS misses was out. Right or wrong, I will drop him when I see him.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:56:36
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although not as responsible as the person who is in the relationship and "having you on the side"....
IMO anyone who becomes "the bit on the side" assisting in the person cheating and not giving a sh!t about the person being affected are thoughtless selfish tw@ts IMO
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 22:57:43
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Agreed. Esp if there are kids involved. Both sides are cnuts at the end of the day. If they can't see the damage they are doing (esp with kids in there) they are simply blind.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 23:33:49
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Agreed. Esp if there are kids involved. Both sides are cnuts at the end of the day. If they can't see the damage they are doing (esp with kids in there) they are simply blind.
i agree mate,when kids are involved then its a whole new ball game and feelings would be much greater.
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RE: Ever been a bit on the side? - Apr. 22 2008 23:40:50
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Indeed, having kids I know exactly what my feelings would be. Hence my anger is very deep if wronged!
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