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Would you go see a professional if your other half is h... - May 7 2008 13:29:30
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Dan Nukem
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Would you go see an escort if your other half is holding out on you?
In terms of sex.
(before you bother to ask, yes I am considering it and no I have never cheated before)
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:30:34
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Why is she 'holding out on you'?
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:33:56
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Mook
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I'd weigh up,
How much I cared, how long I'd been waiting, attractiveness of partner, risk of her finding out, cost
I'd probably then go regardless 
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:39:00
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Dan Nukem
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I'd weigh up,
How much I cared, how long I'd been waiting, attractiveness of partner, risk of her finding out, cost
I'd probably then go regardless
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:40:38
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swift
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hard one
because on the one hand you could argue, that sex is part of the deal with your current missus.
but if she is holding out, out of spite then .........
this isnt the nice answer.
but if you were one of my mates id say see a pro , all things considered
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:40:53
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Dan Nukem
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Why is she 'holding out on you'?
She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:42:22
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Mook
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Why is she 'holding out on you'?
She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
If that's the reason mate, I wouldn't be worried about seeing an escort because I'd be single
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:42:37
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FromTheAshes
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You dont need me to tell you theres more her reasons than meets the eye.
How long have u been with her?
I'd be tempted to get rid.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:43:12
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No, I wouldn't.
I'd talk about it without raised voices or emotions and get to the crux of the problem.
If it was irreconcilable I'd suggest a permanent split.
If it was reconcilable, I'd have both parties work toward that.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:46:52
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Why is she 'holding out on you'?
She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
She doesnt sound like a very nice other half at all.
Maybe you could try and talk about it and if she is unwilling to discuss things in a mature manner then you can hold your head up high and walk away knowing that you have done everything you can do to save the relationship.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:51:59
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mate next time she is in the bedroom or whatever just get the wang out and start rubbing one out right there.
fcuk it mate
or when your lieing down one night next to each other just rub one out nice and loud, i know subtlety and all that
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:55:09
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If you visit the services of a working girl, I seriously doubt there's any way the relationship can get through this patch.
If the relationship's effectively over, end it.
You're then single so get back on the dating scene with no feelings of guilt and hopefully a new woman will fall for your jokes and celtic charms everyone's happy.
(If you need any tips on dating if you're been out of the game for a while, my advice - ignore anything Eddie or Apollo have to offer 
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:55:13
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She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
From your posts in your journal before it is you who should be punishing her
there is a good chance you wont enjoy an escort considering its your gf you wish to be with not an escort
Dan you deserve better that what that girl gives you
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:56:51
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When you say 'escort' I assume you mean 'prostitute' - there are many escorts who do not partake in any sexual acts. I think you should edit your post.
In answer to your question, no I wouldn't - I have porn, Kleenex and a right hand - all I need!
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:57:22
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I love the way everyone on this forum blames her. Maybe you are just crap in bad and she can't bring herself to tell you 
If that isn't the case then why stay with someone who can't or makes no effort to be intimate with you?
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 13:59:54
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Would you go see an escort if your other half is holding out on you?
In terms of sex.
(before you bother to ask, yes I am considering it and no I have never cheated before)
No mate
If nothing could be resolved, then I'd end the relationship personally
Or maybe she wouldn't mind an open relationship if she doesn't consider sex to be of importance in a relationship? In which case you could both go and sleep with other people. I don't know the ins and outs of this, but "punishing" you for giving her too many hugs? Erm. That seems a bit odd
Something needs to change I reckon
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 14:05:51
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ORIGINAL: Blasphemousfish
Why is she 'holding out on you'?
She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
If that's the reason mate, I wouldn't be worried about seeing an escort because I'd be single
Same.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 14:07:26
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seriously mate if that is the case, it sounds to me your relationship is coming towards its end.
unless you take serious action quickly to reslove it, i think a third party will have to be involved (as in relate or whatever).
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Why is she 'holding out on you'?
She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 14:21:33
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Dan Nukem
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No, I wouldn't.
I'd talk about it without raised voices or emotions and get to the crux of the problem.
If it was irreconcilable I'd suggest a permanent split.
If it was reconcilable, I'd have both parties work toward that.
I'm driven mad from trying to reconcile at this stage, she doesn't even make an effort anymore, just demands and complaints.
Told her this today, relationship should go 2 ways.
I have one last thing left which I will try to do and if that doesn't work, then I'm ending it for sure.
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RE: Would you go see a professional if your other half ... - May 7 2008 14:22:42
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Dan Nukem
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She said for the last few months that it was health problems, but after a big row this morning, she let it slip that it was to punish me or something along those lines because she is angry with me about something.
The something being that I hug her too much and show her I care too much.
Apparently I need to be cold and give her space.
From your posts in your journal before it is you who should be punishing her
there is a good chance you wont enjoy an escort considering its your gf you wish to be with not an escort
Dan you deserve better that what that girl gives you
Her own brother said this to me himself mate.
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