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RE: Terrible situation - May 11 2008 23:12:09
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DissoluteMan
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I was in the same situation about 4 or 5 years ago before i met my lovely wife to be. My x just happend to run into the arms of some 'work friend' on the same nite we argued. I wont go into loads of details but basically we had been together around 3 years before it happend, we split up for a little bit, tried to make it work but it never happend for us again as it was always there in the back of my mind. In the end i got rid of her, sorted my head out and met my new partner and we haven't looked back since.
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RE: Terrible situation - May 11 2008 23:15:37
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been there myself, tried staying together, but any argument that ever happens it will always come back to haunt you! ammo to win an argument, but it never works, and ain't healthy!
Only one thing to do, is kick her into touch.
You prob wanna be single now anyway, summer is here. Any the hot chics are solar powered. My area was crawling with talent today.
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RE: Terrible situation - May 11 2008 23:16:16
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Dump her and go watch a lot of porn. Good porn, none of this 'professional' garbage.
think thats really the last thing you'd want to do mate tbh 
sorry to hear this R and there I was thinkin it was all back on track again. Can't really offer much advise, as I'm in a bit of a sh1t with relationship stuff aswell at the mo. Its hard to face reality sometimes, when you have doubts and think deep down, its probably best to do something about it, but can't, as you still have feelings for that person.
kind of in the same boat dude, not with the cheating business though. hope things work out for you though fella for the best 
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 12:47:21
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bman1981
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best watch out then, if you and your mate are both on the prowl for women.
You already seem to be sorting your head out about the situatiuon which is good.
Like i said, summers here enjoy it!
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 12:51:12
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a) stop crying you gimp
b) dump her
c) go to the pub and boast about how many times you went with her pals..
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 13:00:56
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a) stop crying you gimp
b) dump her
c) go to the pub and boast about how many times you went with her pals..
Your talents are wasted in IT mate.
I know mate Im thinking of branching out..
Marital Councilling lol....you could have a live show!
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 14:13:48
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I'm sorting out a pumpin for one of her best m8s
dont pull yourself down to her level mate!
Just enjoy the summer and chill out
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 14:25:23
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I'm sorting out a pumpin for one of her best m8s
What a delightful way to describe the act of 'love-making'
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 14:40:38
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Sorry to be blunt,
But dump her.
agreed if shes done this once while your falling out she will do it again and its not right her going off with someone else because you weren't getting on.if it ws me and my gf shed be gone the minute i found out no second chances
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 15:07:54
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all these people saying dump her etc i feel the comments are wasted.
he hasnt posted up saying she wants to get back, what should i do etc... so im assuming she is already gone...
yay for 'pumping' the mates.
lol
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 15:21:25
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I'm sorting out a pumpin
love the terminology
Although if you want to close the deal I wouldn't refer to it as that during proceedings.
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 18:38:25
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1. Whats to stop her doing the same thing during the next argument?
2. Whats to stop her doing the same thing when there are no arguments and she is just bored?
The fact that she has been able to do that(no matter what the argument is about) is enough to dump her. Me personally i wouldnt even think about it. Just get rid of her and spend the money you would have spent on her on Whey Protein!
Oh and dont ever show her that you've been hurt by it even if you have. I know that it is painfull and all that but if you want to really piss her off, pretend that you are not bothered by it at all and that you are moving on with your life.
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 19:40:00
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This is where I agree with the arabs...that she should be stoned to death.
Seriously though mate. Best thing to do is forget about her and move on ASAP. All women are evil. We've all been crossed in someway or another by a woman no doubt(same goes with women and men) so don't cry over spilt milk get out there and find the next filly to get fired into sooner you do that the sooner you might find your true love 
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 19:45:11
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Personally I would date someone else for a while, then see how you feel about a possible reconciliation, depending on your feelings a little bit later down the line. I think your relationship is over for now, but for now is not always forever
Right now I think you're too wired up to make any sensible decisions - I know I would be anyway
Good luck whatever you decide
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RE: Terrible situation - May 12 2008 19:54:41
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Dude, I hate to say it, but ****...I told you to bin her man, forget her, she's obviously trouble and you deserve alot better.
Chin up, now grab your fellow MT party buddy and hit the city centre
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RE: Terrible situation - May 13 2008 12:53:24
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This is where I agree with the arabs...that she should be stoned to death.
How about the bloke she slept with ?
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RE: Terrible situation - May 13 2008 13:29:24
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This is where I agree with the arabs...that she should be stoned to death.
How about the bloke she slept with ?
He's blameless.
Lads will be lads, after all.
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