First I'd like to say hi

, a friend recomended this site to me and I have to say it's a real gold mine. A liitle about me, i'm 6'3" and currentley 16st11lb down from 17st7Lb, I joined a local gym last year and started out pretty well, lost some wight and really started to notice some changes in body shape from the weights I was doing over the 4 month period I was going for, however the instructor I got on well with left and various other things happened and my gym going fizzled out. This year in march I joined a new gym, up until the last month or so I haven't really been commited but have more recentley started to get more focused, I have started to eat breakfast religiously, cut out booze (only the last couple of weeks, I was drinking most nights and usually quite heavy at the weekend) and started eating loads more fruit and veg, also cut red meat down to about once a week or so. In the gym I have mainly been doing cardio, usually 3 times a week, consisting of spinning twice a week and a cross training session, I really want to add in some weights in to this now though to get some shape.
My aims are to basically get rid of my beer belly, get a generally good level of fitness and
build some muscle for a nice body shape, instead of the slightly wobbly one I have at the moment, partly due to the fact i'm getting married in september and want to look good when we go to Australia next year for our belated honeymoon.
I have had a good look over the beginner section on here and really like the look of cashmans workout routine and plan to try that out startnig tonight, diet however is something i'm totally confused with, personally I don't think I eat badly but i'm sure people on here will tell me otherwise, these to subjects are where I was hopnig to get some advice!!
Breakfast, now this is really all new to me but I think I have found one that I like, this morning I had 2 weetabix with some low fat pro biotic natural yoghurt and some chopped up strawberries.
Lunch, usually a sandwich, turkey and stuffing with salad on granary, a cuople of apples and some pineapple, washed down with a fruit smoothie. somethimes I substitute the sandwich with a salad bowl, I have the usual lettuce cucumber and tomato, then add chick peas, pasta, potato salad in low fat mayo, chicken, boiled egg, carrot and cheese.
Dinner, normally something with salad and cous cous, last night for instance was Turkey fried off in a teaspoon of olive oil, quite often we will have prawns or mackrel or some other kind of fish.
I don't tend to snack, if I do it's normally an apple or some brazil nuts, i never eat crisps, I can't stand them!!!
So how does that sound, any good or pi55 poor??? another coulple of things I would like to clear up, really about what times I should be eating, like most people work is plays a major factor in when I can get to the gym, unfortunatley some nights this means eating at 9pm, is this a problem??? I mean eating late and then going to bed say an hour and a half later, I understand working out in the morning is beneficial, I just can't do this, I already get up at 5:45am and have to drop my other half at the train station by 6:45, then I have a 40 min drive to work, it's a nightmare!!!!!!
Anyway, thats about it, hopefully soon i'll have some good news to report back with instead of lots of questions.
Cheers
Steve