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2009/07/26 14:39:37 (permalink)
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Are we designed to be faithful??

All i hear about is cheating this cheating that.  Everyone cheating.  Seems like a real big effort form most people to stay commited to a partner.  Are we really meant to be faithful to one person?  Is it really that bad to cheat?  we only have limited time on this plannet shouldnt we enjoy ourselves?


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    galenkia
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 14:41:19 (permalink)
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    If you can't commit then don't.

    Easy.

    I am faithful to my girlfriend,as i was to my exe's.Only moved on after splitting up.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:03:16 (permalink)
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    Im the past ive had gf's that i really loved but if another good looking girl acted the slightest bit seductive id just have to act on it, Sex for me is THE best thing on the planet and i love the chase/build up etc but im not saying cheating is right just that i cant say no.
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    galenkia
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:12:35 (permalink)
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    Blue_Lagoon3000

    Im the past ive had gf's that i really loved but if another good looking girl acted the slightest bit seductive id just have to act on it, Sex for me is THE best thing on the planet and i love the chase/build up etc but im not saying cheating is right just that i cant say no.


    You did not love them if you needed to chase other girls.
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    odog
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:14:29 (permalink)
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     hard to look a gift horse in the mouth and say no ay blue!

    i manage to stay faithful to all my gf's but i often wonder why?  they dont bother
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    galenkia
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:17:49 (permalink)
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    odog

     hard to look a gift horse in the mouth and say no ay blue!

    i manage to stay faithful to all my gf's but i often wonder why?  they dont bother


    Then you are picking the wrong type of girls mate.

    Not knocking you or BL at all,but if you are unable to commit to a girl then don't.There are plenty of girls out there who are only out for a good time also.Just don't hurt the good ones.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:20:47 (permalink)
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    Blue - don't you think we all feel like "hmmm i'd like some of that"?
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    galenkia
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:22:53 (permalink)
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    Papa Lazarou

    Blue - don't you think we all feel like "hmmm i'd like some of that"?


    We all feel like that.

    But it come's down to whether we act on it.
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    odog
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:23:53 (permalink)
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    galenkia

    odog

    hard to look a gift horse in the mouth and say no ay blue!

    i manage to stay faithful to all my gf's but i often wonder why?  they dont bother


    Then you are picking the wrong type of girls mate.

    Not knocking you or BL at all,but if you are unable to commit to a girl then don't.There are plenty of girls out there who are only out for a good time also.Just don't hurt the good ones.


    this is good advice,,, but how do you really know? im sure my gf think the sun shines out my rectum but if she knew where ive been and what ive done i doubt she wd wana go near me again . and i dont mean while i bn out with her ive been faithful

    post edited by odog - 2009/07/26 15:25:07
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    galenkia
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:27:08 (permalink)
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    If it is in the past then it's not a problem.We all have a history.But if it happened when you were with her then that's a different matter.

    Do you honestly trust your lady Odog?.
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    odog
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:29:22 (permalink)
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    i only trust my family and maybe two friends 100%%  everyones else is open to cnut you given the right time imo!!
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:37:00 (permalink)
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    If you want to shag around then don't have a steady partner. Nobody is forcing anyone to be monogamous. But if you have a partner who loves you and you lie and sneak and deceive them, that has nothing to do with wanting to sow your wild oats. Nature does not force a person to be a liar or a sneak!

    I don't know whether we are designed to be monogamous, a lot of people try and they do succeed and are happy with that kind of life whereas others find it miserable, frustrating, boring and restrictive.

    All you can do is know what makes you tick and be honest with others.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 15:37:59 (permalink)
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    odog

    i only trust my family and maybe two friends 100%%  everyones else is open to cnut you given the right time imo!!


    Interesting.

    I am quite suprised you trust your mates and family more than your girlfriend.I have found that family is the least trustworthy of anyone in my experiences.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 16:24:44 (permalink)
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    footdee

    If you want to shag around then don't have a steady partner. Nobody is forcing anyone to be monogamous. But if you have a partner who loves you and you lie and sneak and deceive them, that has nothing to do with wanting to sow your wild oats. Nature does not force a person to be a liar or a sneak!

    I don't know whether we are designed to be monogamous, a lot of people try and they do succeed and are happy with that kind of life whereas others find it miserable, frustrating, boring and restrictive.

    All you can do is know what makes you tick and be honest with others.


    Nail on head mate.I have the same beliefs.




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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 16:40:42 (permalink)
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    im naturally a flirt i cant help myself...starts off just talking and before u know its full on flirting. it gets to the stage where the girl really wants u then i have to say no.
    not very nice being on the recieving end i can imagine.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 16:45:20 (permalink)
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    It's not hard to stay faithful, is it?

    All you need are morals, love and a tiny bit of willpower.

    Never strayed, never will.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 17:04:26 (permalink)
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    no its not hard and its something i find quite easy to do actually!

    but why do so many people cheat if its not that hard?  it seems totaly unatural really,
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 17:19:58 (permalink)
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    Alcohol or feeling unloved would be my main two guesses.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 17:43:46 (permalink)
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    Alcohol is a poor excuse for bad behaviour IMO, it cannot turn you into a totally different person unless you become an alcoholic.

    Most people cheat because they simply aren't in the right relationship, or have no self-discipline, and expect to have everything and nothing at the same time, as with everything in modern life.

    Everyone wants a decent physique, but most don't want to work hard.

    Everyone wants to earn huge money, most don't want to sacrifice other aspects of their life.

    Most people will want a long-lasting relationship at some point, but they don't want to have to sacrifice anything.
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    Re:Are we designed to be faithful?? 2009/07/26 17:50:45 (permalink)
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    A thousand years of civilisation havent changed our basic biological programming which is to procreate, whenever we can.

    I choose not to, but the fact that I see other women who literally make me hurt Id like to so much, indicates to me we are not "programmed" to be faithful.

    Yet I am.

    My username has nothing to do with my religious beliefs.....
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