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2006/07/17 16:17:56 (permalink)
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Attacked my own brother

Not been on here since Friday.

Been basically out since Friday until Sunday morning. As the title says i hit my own brother. We were all out together arguement rised up and drink and drugs fuelled the situation and lost control and hit me giving him 4 stitches on his lip i was also attacking some of his friends but then this went too far with me being a bell end.
He has admitted to his mates that he did provoke me and go for me but still this is bo!!ocks. I normally have control especially concerning my bro.

I am not small at 15st 10lbs and trained in Ninjitsu altjough i didnt use any of that i just hit him. I feel like absolute sh!t, i am gutted over my actions.
His face is all swollen

I cant beleive me being the @sshole i am i didnt even go and look after him afterwards just carried getting smashed with what i can describe as bum-lickers and yes boys. Trawled in on Sunday morning.
I have been sleeping since.

I feel so ashamed and embarrassed over what i have done. I cant look at him. I have spoke to my gf (but she aint in the best of moods as i started sh!t with her over the phone) but i need to talk to people.

All i know is that i am renouncing alcohol/drugs and certain ppl as this has gone too far.

Dont know what i can do and need a little guidance.

Pip
post edited by Pip - 2006/07/17 16:18:50
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    drab4
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:21:09 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Pip

    Dont know what i can do and need a little guidance.

    Sounds like it was just the drink and drugs talking

    So what you need to do is know your limit

    I have beaten people because I was drunk and coked up, when I wouldn't have bothered otherwise. That is the nature of these drugs and everyone knows this

    But your own brother is going too far, you simply need to know your limit with those drugs

    My brother can be a total idiot, a violent nut, so I've had plenty of chances when I could have fought him believe me lol. But we never have since we were kids because we do know our limits to some extent
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:24:12 (permalink)
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    calm down stop woorying and ring him up and talk things out
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:24:12 (permalink)
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    sorry to hear that dood! but fmailys always have fights. just appoligise and show him u mean it wont fix it over night but over time will be alright and prob look back n laugh thinking how stupid.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:27:24 (permalink)
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    Let yourself cool down a bit mate and then definately go see you brother. He's probably feeling just as bad as you about winding you up so much and going for you in the first place. You don't want this to turn into one of those fueds that go on for years do you. Make apologies where necessary and accept apologies made to you (it sounds as tho your bro was just as out of order from what you've said). And LEARN from it.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:27:34 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: davedarave01uk

    calm down stop woorying and ring him up and talk things out


    He is sat in the other room mate, we still live together.
    I really cant face him looking at his face which is all swollen.
    Made my mother cry over this crap
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:28:39 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: drab4


    ORIGINAL: Pip

    Dont know what i can do and need a little guidance.

    Sounds like it was just the drink and drugs talking

    So what you need to do is know your limit

    I have beaten people because I was drunk and coked up, when I wouldn't have bothered otherwise. That is the nature of these drugs and everyone knows this

    But your own brother is going too far, you simply need to know your limit with those drugs

    My brother can be a total idiot, a violent nut, so I've had plenty of chances when I could have fought him believe me lol. But we never have since we were kids because we do know our limits to some extent


    I know and agree 110% with you. Hence why i am now renouncing it or especially them all together.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:30:25 (permalink)
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    No more drugs.

     
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:30:43 (permalink)
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    Older or younger brother?
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:31:45 (permalink)
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    What has he said about all this? Has he said anything to you since you hit him?

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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:33:36 (permalink)
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    You think thats bad? my older brother put a pillow over my face when I was five, so he got fostered and lived somewhere else. Then I was about 14 he tried to stab me LOL I closed the door on him and it bent the knife, so pretty close. Its your bother though aint it, still got to love em'
    post edited by Cheshire Cat - 2006/07/17 16:36:00
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:34:14 (permalink)
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    double post
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:34:50 (permalink)
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    Sounds like you've been a right w@nker

    I wouldn't stress to much if I were you Pip, these things happen. It sounds like you were both i the same place and it could just as easily been him hitting you. Give him a call, appologise and talk it over. I'm sure he'll get over it.

    I think you know what you need to do mate: cut the chemicals. I've been there. Drink and drugs everynight till it started getting the better of me. Al these chemicals fook with your brain and make you do stupid things. My lifes never been better since giving all that sh!t up.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:38:34 (permalink)
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    If you can't hit your own brother and still be friends, who can you hit?

    Don't mean to sound flippant but blood is thicker than water and all that.

    It should be OK in the end.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:44:47 (permalink)
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    mate, brothers fight ALL the time, me and mine used to be best mates, born literally around 9 months apart. Ive lost count of the amount of times we had a punch up, then out playing footy or up the park hours later. if you feel so bad, stop putting ****e into your body and try to patch things up
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:44:52 (permalink)
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    Personally id never accept alcohol or drugs as a valid excuse for violence, especially toward your own brother. In short you should have known better.

    You need to seek forgiveness, your brother doesnt seem like the type to hold grudges or hed have done something by now, possibly in the way of reporting you to the police. In all honesty, i would have, in the hope youd learn from your mistakes.

    Id be so ashamed if id done what you had, but id still apoligise and keep doing it until my brother forgave me for it. Funny thing is, i know he would straight away, because he looks up to me.

    Simply put, youve been stupid, apoligise and start over.

    Good luck.

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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:47:08 (permalink)
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    Nasty situation i know. my bro hit me a few years back split me over my eye, my Ma was freaked out too but any tension disappeared within a week. Just apoliguise to everyone again, tell them you love em all and you were just a big drunken twat.

    Do something with your bro that he really enjoys and it'll be like nothing ever happened
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 16:52:16 (permalink)
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    Nothing you can do about it now it has been already done, try and take something positive from the situation whether it be stopping the use of drugs learning to control your temper. So every time you do think about what you done you can think about how it made you look at yourself and make yourself a better person.

    You two will be back to normal, you say you hit him which is bad but not as bad as beating him to a pulp at least you drew the line and regret what you've done so much that you've posted on here which is a good thing.
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 17:07:22 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: [Joe]

    Older or younger brother?


    Younger by 3yrs so 23.

    ORIGINAL: youngitalianbabe

    What has he said about all this? Has he said anything to you since you hit him?


    "you are a f*cking dick. Right on my lip again"
    Apart from that not much. I really am ashamed i keep going in and asking him if he needs anything, food (cant even open his mouth) a drink etc. Even offered him some lidnocaine gel for his lip in case he may want to eat.

    ORIGINAL: Cheshire Cat

    You think thats bad? my older brother put a pillow over my face when I was five, so he got fostered and lived somewhere else. Then I was about 14 he tried to stab me LOL I closed the door on him and it bent the knife, so pretty close. Its your bother though aint it, still got to love em'


    Goddamn!!

    ORIGINAL: Ronin316

    Sounds like you've been a right w@nker

    I wouldn't stress to much if I were you Pip, these things happen. It sounds like you were both i the same place and it could just as easily been him hitting you. Give him a call, appologise and talk it over. I'm sure he'll get over it.

    I think you know what you need to do mate: cut the chemicals. I've been there. Drink and drugs everynight till it started getting the better of me. Al these chemicals fook with your brain and make you do stupid things. My lifes never been better since giving all that sh!t up.


    Agreed about being a w@nker.
    I wont get hit Ronin316, hence why i should not have hit him and let him at least let him strike me. He wouldnt have made the mess i have.
    Cut the chemicals i now my motto. It will stop my ego and the people round me that feed it which is what happened.
    Cant blame anyone except myself though.
    ORIGINAL: Furyan

    Personally id never accept alcohol or drugs as a valid excuse for violence, especially toward your own brother. In short you should have known better.

    You need to seek forgiveness, your brother doesnt seem like the type to hold grudges or hed have done something by now, possibly in the way of reporting you to the police. In all honesty, i would have, in the hope youd learn from your mistakes.

    Id be so ashamed if id done what you had, but id still apoligise and keep doing it until my brother forgave me for it. Funny thing is, i know he would straight away, because he looks up to me.

    Simply put, youve been stupid, apoligise and start over.

    Good luck.


    My brother looks up to me too hence the reason for even more shame and embarrassment.
    Alcohol and drugs fuelled it but its no excuse, agreed.
    post edited by Pip - 2006/07/17 17:08:16
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    RE: Attacked my own brother 2006/07/17 17:10:36 (permalink)
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    He still wants to train but i dont want him to in this heat and especially with his face the way it is. I am embarrassed because i dont want people to know that i did that.
    It a f*cking sham.
    I am not going to the gym today. My kidneys hurt.
    post edited by Pip - 2006/07/17 17:11:06
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