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2007/06/16 23:29:34 (permalink)
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Be The Bigger Man Or??

Hi everybody, i need some adult advice here so i turned to Muscletalk again.

Im friends with this girl at work shes sound and i go clubbing with her mate now and again, they'm both sound girls. I met the one i speak to at works boyfriend a few weeks ago he tried to come with a strong handshake etc trying to intimidate me he was full on drunk so i let him enjoy his night. He was with his girl and i was with her mate fair enough had a good night left the club with the girl and on the way home, i saw the girl and her fella gave them a lift to another nightclub thought nothing of it.

3 days later i get a phone call off him saying ''have i been trying it with his mrs'' i said ''dont be stupid im meetin her mate why would i want to try it with your mrs'' not swearing nothing left it as that.

Spoke to the girl today im friends with at work and she said every argument they have he brings me into it, Carl this Carl that etc

Heres a few examples :

He asks her all the time if she would shag me
Asks her if she would get off with me
He says i got alot more going for me than him as i drive a nice car and got more money than him.

He's been messaging me on myspace telling me to stop a way from him if i know whats good for me giving it all the talk.

The lad is literally smaller than me and im 5'6 and hes as thin as a rake! But hes got a right mouth on him.

If i asked my mates what to do obviously they will say ''smash him in'' i want an adults point of view and what i should do?

Also, ive planned to go clubbing next week with the girl i usually go out with and he will be there with his girlfriend, whats the best thing i should do?

Hope i've made sense.

Carl
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    ThePluggedOne
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:31:38 (permalink)
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    Im 30.... smash him in.

    Making bad life choices since 1976!
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:33:53 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: plug1

    Im 30.... smash him in.



    I'm 30 as well and second that.

    I'm here to attain not maintain
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:34:00 (permalink)
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    Bang his misses

    It's finally arrived....PM Neb for swaps!


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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:34:42 (permalink)
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    wouldnt bother trying to start anything, but wouldnt try and avoid him either. if you bump into him chances are he will have nothing to say when it comes to the crunch. I think if he does have a bit too much to say sometimes people got to get what they deserve, but then again thats just my macho, testosterone fuelled opinion...

    just carry on living your life as normal, ignore him as much as possible and wait and see how it plans out would be my advise...
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:35:24 (permalink)
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    To be perfectly honest the girl should sort it out - it's him that's got the issue and she's the one that needs to convince him there's nothing going on or could go on between you.

    Smashing him in will only make matters much much worse IMO

    And though she be but little, she is fierce..
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:36:24 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Neb

    Bang his misses


    You cant hit girls..

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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:37:04 (permalink)
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    I said to the girl at work

    '' I dont want to fight your boyfriend as it will make your life hell, but if he starts something in the nightclub then its a different situation''

    she replied with

    '' Ok, im sick to death of him now everywhere we go he always starts trouble with somebody''
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:39:42 (permalink)
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    My advice is never post a serious question on a Saturday night

    Especially with all these drunk thugs on here

    Dbam comes, spouts some ****, DBAM goes.
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:39:55 (permalink)
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    sound like a prat...
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:41:00 (permalink)
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    It's a vicious circle mate.........


    Ignore the lad and the girl will like u but the lad wll always be in your face.

    Smash him in and the girls mate, who obviously likes him despite his attitude, will turn the girl u like against u.

    Your best off out of the whole situation mate, give the girl the brush off and find another lady without any baggage, ( if such a thing exists)!

    I'm here to attain not maintain
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:41:07 (permalink)
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    Do you know if she has cheated on him before Mate ? could be a reason for his insecurities.
    Cheating f*cks alot of peoples heads up.

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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:42:52 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: dbam

    My advice is never post a serious question on a Saturday night

    Especially with all these drunk thugs on here


    Cheeky bugger !

    And though she be but little, she is fierce..
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:44:19 (permalink)
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    they got together through cheating, she cheated on her ex with him he cheated on his ex with her if it makes sense.

    Odyysey - Regardless if im in the nightclub with her i'll see him in the same nightclub as we all end up in the same nightclub, i aint gonna change the nightclub i go to because of some idiot.
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:46:19 (permalink)
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    Let him dig his own grave if that's what he wants. You can be perfectly calm and reassure him there's nothing going on. If he does get physical then so be it.

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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:49:02 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Welshy

    ORIGINAL: dbam

    My advice is never post a serious question on a Saturday night

    Especially with all these drunk thugs on here APART FROM WELSHY WHO ALWAYS GIVES TOP ADVICE!!!!!!!!!


    Cheeky bugger !



    Dbam comes, spouts some ****, DBAM goes.
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:50:49 (permalink)
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    I think thats my best bet is take it as it comes to be honest, i aint the fighting type but i certainly dont back down.

    Before i met him she said her boyfriend was on steroids i thought oh god i bet hes a big b*stard, i can confidently say he weighs no more than 10 stone at 21 y/o but that aint the point. Maybe he needs MT in his life to bring his feet back on the ground lol
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:51:18 (permalink)
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    Lol, yes I get it Carl, maybe he thinks if she cheated on her ex with him she can do it again, maybe the circumstances that led to them being together are similar to the situation you find yourself in now ?
    Sounds like he`s a little more insecure about it all than her but then again maybe he knows her a little too well

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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:52:34 (permalink)
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    he obviously feels insecure mate it would be wrong to "smash him in" i would let it be for now and see if he persists to say these things,if he does have a word without hitting him if possible, as far as you going clubbing next week fill your boots and go,if he is there and starts saying things,talk first and warn him,if he doesnt accept the warnning,smash his face in.
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    RE: Be The Bigger Man Or?? 2007/06/16 23:53:54 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: dbam

    My advice is never post a serious question on a Saturday night

    Especially with all these drunk thugs on here APART FROM WELSHY WHO ALWAYS GIVES TOP ADVICE!!!!!!!!!



    Hahahaha !!! ... Saved by the edit !

    And though she be but little, she is fierce..
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