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2007/06/19 22:22:21 (permalink)
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Dating rules

I have been out of the dating game for a veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery long time. What are good things to say and what are things that you really shouldn't ask?
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    kitty
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:31:22 (permalink)
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    Do you come here often


    Just be yourself, I'm sure with your sexy new bod you'll have no probs
    post edited by kitty - 2007/06/19 22:32:06
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    Ragdoll
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:37:47 (permalink)
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    my biggest problems is keeping my hands off him. He's gorgious god knows how I pulled him.
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:39:12 (permalink)
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    Sod the " rules " ... just be yourself

    And though she be but little, she is fierce..
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:40:58 (permalink)
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    Rules, since when were there rules in dating lol. Agree with kitty just be yourself, obviously dont go over the top and ask him if he wants to marry you in the first date. Seriously a good sense of humour, great company and flowing conversation with some nice food is usually all you need for a great date in my experience. Generally first date advice is the same as in work, sex, politics and religion are best left out of the topics of discussion, focus on listening to each other and finding out about any similarities you may share is a great way of ensuring you see whether you may get along in the long run.

    Just take it easy go in there with confidence and whatever will happen will happen. (oh one thing that does always make me nervous as heck is whether or not to make the first move on a girl so if you like the guy and get the signals that he likes you, body language etc. then kiss him lol!)
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:43:28 (permalink)
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    Just go with the intention to see if you get on and have a good time, whatever will be will be.

    Do not grab his packet and say "really? never mind!"

    Limits, like fear, are often just an illusion: MJ 12/9/09
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:45:41 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Ragdoll

    my biggest problems is keeping my hands off him. He's gorgious god knows how I pulled him.


    LOL maybe he's saying the very same thing about you!

    Best advice anyone can give is just be yourself - it shows through when you try and act differently and it puts people off! I know first hand as an offender of that for years... Not that the women go for me now I be myself but thats besides the point

    mcl
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 22:46:03 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Welshy

    Sod the " rules " ... just be yourself

    its me I'm scared of.

    the last guy that chatted me up told me how old he was and that he didn't have any kids and I came out with "I don't want no more babies". Well it was after a few drinks.
    post edited by Ragdoll - 2007/06/19 22:48:06
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:17:49 (permalink)
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    Lol!

    Just be yourself you'll do finee

    Great progress in your journal btw

    keep up the good work

    Shut up and squat

    UGM
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:21:08 (permalink)
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    one thing i will say is dont get pissed

    and also, dont let the other person find out that you have two phones this early in the relationship, this causes me trouble

    good luck with it though, you'll be sweet
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:23:46 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: kerr616

    one thing i will say is dont get pissedand also, dont let the other person find out that you have two phones this early in the relationship, this causes me trouble

    good luck with it though, you'll be sweet

    Agree.

     Fall in love with the process - and the results will come!
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:30:41 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: kerr616

    one thing i will say is dont get pissed



    I plan on staying on mineral water until I get my steak!!!


    thanks for the comments guys
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:38:46 (permalink)
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    mind you, if he's out his tree then get drinkin!!

     Fall in love with the process - and the results will come!
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:46:13 (permalink)
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    see if you can find out if he has a hobby from a mate or someone and bring it up good conversation,
    dont ask about previous relationships lol could be a sore pointps hes a lucky guy
    post edited by ginasmg - 2007/06/19 23:47:51
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/19 23:53:02 (permalink)
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    Dont panic,relax and enjoy your time and dont rush anything
    I used to look like a birthday cake that had been delivered by the royal mail,but ive kind of grown into my features and im told im pretty good looking now,but it dont really mean much as i dont feel it,i went on a date with a real stunner
    She made compliments to me and i felt the same old pancake face,so i blew it only months after reflecting,i came too see she meant what she said and wasnt just being poltie/nice

    So please dont let what you think,feel get in the way of a nice time,sit back relax take you time and sip your drinks,be yourself,you come over well on here so im sure youll be dandy
    Best of luck,but if you havent been dating for some time please tread careful,as youll feel awful if you get let down latter,build your confidence,in yourself and him over time
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/20 00:01:01 (permalink)
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    Ask him the last time he did anything silly or any poor jokes he has heard,anything corny to get a laugh going to brake the ice
    Once the meal is done,dont rush off ,sit for a drink but move to another part ,so your sat side by side,this will let you both feel youve lowered your guard and your not out to impress

    If you feel a bit tounge tied or at a loss,nip too the loo and get a minute


    Dont drink a lot go home walking on air and elated not trying to recall it all the next day

    Have fun but i dont wanna sound serious but this may lead on,so its very important that not only do you have fun but you set firmly that your nice and great but remain a little in control,and have the upper hand so he respects that you dont take any messying about,your a confidant lady

    Cos sometimes you can be too nice at first and down the line this may lead to youve being the softer one of the two and getting put upon,we men sometimes dont realize how we are

    Please let us know how it goes

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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/20 00:01:28 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Ragdoll


    ORIGINAL: kerr616

    one thing i will say is dont get pissed



    I plan on staying on mineral water until I get my steak!!!



    thanks for the comments guys


    good skills.
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/20 00:18:01 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: knoxville

    Please let us know how it goes


    I will, thanks.

    What am I gonna say if he doesn't kiss me?
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/20 00:19:01 (permalink)
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    Forgive but all a women has to do to get a kiss or more is smile,it wont be a problem
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    RE: Dating rules 2007/06/20 00:20:35 (permalink)
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    Ill let you in on a man secret,when men are goin on a date they start out wondering if they will get any,from the moment you met they wonder when they will get
    and spend the next day smiling that they got some or wondering what they did wrong not to get some
    No Kissing will not be an issue
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