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Apollo
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2008/05/17 03:54:36 (permalink)
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Do you often think about your partners ex partners?

Maybe Im just not normal and have some issues...

But I think about my girlfriends ex boyfriends on a daily basis and thinking of her having sex with somone else before she met me even is a painful feeling. I was the same with my ex gf who I loved also. I always feel like this when I love sombody. As if part of me wishes they were vigins before they met me but in reality I wouldnt want or expect that really.

Or knowing your partner loved somone else before you? Thinking of your partner loving somone else before you, the thought of it is painful?

Does anyone else suffer by often thinking about their partner being with their ex or do I have an issue?

Plus my gf's ex used to beat her up and blacken her eyes and if I ever meet him Id like to smash him in!


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    Johnny Napalm
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 03:58:45 (permalink)
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    i dont think your the first person to think that way mate nor will you be the last.

    completely pointless way of thinking though and will only eat you up inside.

    just appreciate the fact that you girlfriend chooses to be with you now and only you.
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    Apollo
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 04:02:08 (permalink)
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    I know mate, its just when I got to a point of loving her so much then I started to get these horrible thoughts. Your right though that the past isnt important in fact.


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    tuc biscuit
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 06:18:06 (permalink)
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    I can honestly say no I don't.

    I wish I was more attractive like Dagless.
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 06:38:02 (permalink)
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    Apollo why don't you join a relationship/social skills forum.

    Everyone of your posts is about your girlfriend, ex girlfriend, mates girlfriend or combination of the three.

    Do you make any decisions about your personal life with guidance from a bodybuilding community?

    For your age you seem very immature.
    post edited by T0NY - 2008/05/17 06:39:07
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 08:24:37 (permalink)
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    Apollo, you seem a bit of a tender old soul, but really, what's the point in imagining your girlfriend being done by an ex?
    It's sounds like a fetish.

    Just be happy that she's with you.
    The flip side is do you think she gives a second thought to your previous sexual conquests?

    ...you have had previous sexual conquests...haven't you?


     
     
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 08:28:01 (permalink)
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    It might fleetingly cross my mind but no point dwelling on it, I`m sure she`d have far more ammo to shoot at me from my previous sexual adventures mate.

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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 08:36:49 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: johnnyp

    i dont think your the first person to think that way mate nor will you be the last.

    completely pointless way of thinking though and will only eat you up inside.

    just appreciate the fact that you girlfriend chooses to be with you now and only you.


    Words to live by there mate, excellent advice! I only wish I had thought like this with my last ex, we might still be together now, I always felt like I didn't deserve her, that I was punching above my weight, in the end, this became my downfall!!

    Leave everything else go and keep johnnyp's advice in mind and live happily ever after


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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 08:37:16 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Apollo

    Do you often think about your partners ex partners?

    Never. I don't give a fcuk (if you'll pardon the pun), and I actually have gotten mildly amused/ annoyed when past girlfriends have asked me about my own past

    If there was ever a pointless, fruitless, silly conversation which could have no possible good outcome then it is the: "Who Did You Fcuk Before You Met Me" conversation

    I won't entertain it

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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 09:58:51 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Apollo
    Maybe Im just not normal and have some issues...


    No maybe about it. You need professional help



    ORIGINAL: Apollo
    Plus my gf's ex used to beat her up and blacken her eyes and if I ever meet him Id like to smash him in!


    And grow up while you're at it, or at least have the courstesy to get his version before the smashing commences


    As far as I know, forgiveness is for the benefit of the person doing the forgiving, not the one being forgiven
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    RE: Do you often think about your partners ex partners? 2008/05/17 10:07:19 (permalink)
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    Sorry but quite frankly I'm getting bored to the back teeth of these incessant tales of your girlfriends/lovelife/hard man fighting posts.

    Please - give it a rest.
    post edited by Lord Monkcheese - 2008/05/17 11:34:32
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