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2009/07/13 17:23:54 (permalink)

Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals

Alreet guys and gals,
 
Started dating some girl who I met in a club not last sat but the sat before.
 
In the past week I have been out for 3 meals with her and she hasn't offered to pay half for any of them (fair enough I figured as she is a student so doesnt have a lot of money), however whats annoying me is she hasnt even thanked me for paying for the lot so far.
 
Last sat we went out for lunch at this nice restaurant. She knew I was taking her for lunch in advance. She eats literally a tiny bit and says "i'm not really hungry", then when we went to the bar together to pay it came to about 30 quid and I paid with her standing next to me, waiting for her to say "shall I put in half", or "Thank you for paying", but no I get nothing.
 
At the end when I drop her off at home she usually says "thanks for today", but doesnt directly thank me for paying for the whole meal, which is what I would like to hear.
 
The thing is she is dead pretty and I like her as we get on really well, so want to keep seeing her however next time we go out (if it happens to be for a meal) shall I say "right your half is 15 quid", or if I pay the lot and she doesnt say thanks say "you're welcome" to her in a sarcastic way etc or does that seem rude?
 
Cheers in advance guys.
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    tac
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:29:36 (permalink)
    Sounds like you need to draw up some ground rules.

    Next time try the phrase "Listen darlin', either tonight ends up in some 'wrong lovin' or its your turn to pay for this" and see what happens...


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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:31:00 (permalink)
    Eddie, she does sound like she is taking the piss - just tell her now 'I'll leave it upto you to choose our next date' - or do something other then going out for a meal - a training session at the Healthrooms gym for example!
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:34:20 (permalink)
    Probably because she's young IMO, most girls under 24 or so wouldn't thank you today, maybe they kind of expect it now, also if she's very attractive they tend to know it and usually get what they want from guys..
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:37:12 (permalink)
    This p1sses me off to, i always end up being a mug and paying for the bulk of stuff when with women lol!

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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:37:58 (permalink)
    pete:

    I might do what you said to me earlier at the gym which is to text her saying "I think it's your turn to take me out somewhere next time", or summut along them lines and see what she says.

    If I bought her to the gym for a session would she get it for free? ;) lol
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:38:43 (permalink)
    I rarely pay, equal rights...they earnt them, dont go and disrespect all their hard work guys haha

    Seriously, fck double standards. 

    Ill buy occasionally, just like most people but not because im male or any of that crap. 
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:40:34 (permalink)
    id say seeing as youre still in the very preliminary stages of the 'relationship', id leave it for a few weeks before saying anything to her about it, cos u might just come across as very rude. perhaps shes just one of those really traditional girls who just expects to have everything paid for on the first few dates.
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:41:32 (permalink)
    Possibly because she is pretty she is used to blokes willingly spending on her and probably doesn't even realise she should be taking her turn to pay or go half's every now and then.

    Try taking her out for just a drink buy the first round then when you have finished your drink say 'your round' in a casual but meaningful way, if she refuses to buy you both a drink then she will never pay for anything so dump her.....unless she is really good in the sack
     
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:43:08 (permalink)
    ^^but you're making them feel like a lady Scott, some traditions will never die lol...so she can tell her best mate 'he took me for a lovely meal last night' that's what it's all about :)
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:43:50 (permalink)
    strikalite

    ^^but you're making them feel like a lady Scott, some traditions will never die lol...so she can tell her best mate 'he took me for a lovely meal last night' that's what it's all about :)


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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:44:38 (permalink)
    strikalite

    ^^but you're making them feel like a lady Scott, some traditions will never die lol...so she can tell her best mate 'he took me for a lovely meal last night' that's what it's all about :)


    See its traditional fcukers like you that make me have to open my wallet.. tosser lol!!

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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:45:35 (permalink)
    definately dont leave itm you have already left it too long.  Should have got things straight from the very first date.

    i really dont understand why the man should be expected to pay for the first portion of a relationship.  they shouldnt.  If she doesnt stick around because you wont pay for everything then you may as well just hire an escort imo.  And to not even say thankyou is taking the piss big time.

    so i would now say something, and be direct, dont leave room for her to get out of it by just hinting.  On your way out say 'your turn to pay tonight seeing i have got the last 3 times'

    if she says no then leave.  simples! 
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:49:05 (permalink)
    seriously you guys that pay for everything, even just for a few dates, need to wise up!

    There is absoloutely no need to!  it has never ever stopped me from getting anywhere with a woman, be a man, say it like it is, they are paying half and thats that. 

    only mugs pay for everything.  to hell with whats 'ment' to be traditional, that went out years ago with women wtaying at home, not working, not voting etc etc. 

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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:50:36 (permalink)
    Generally if I offer to take someone out for a meal, I pay. That being said I almost never take girls out to dinner before we have had sex, as it sets up that idea that I am going to pay for her in the relationship.


    Dinner is for after you have had sex and not before

    Take her for a drink instead and get the first round. After the first round, if she doesn't offer to get you a drink, ask for one!

    I cant stand going out with girls who think that men should pay for everything and then eventually if your lucky let you in their honeypot. So many girls think that just because they are hot they can get what they want. Not in my world.
     

    It's the 21st century, equality means paying your way.

    once all the bullsh1t is out the way and your sleeping together, then you can treat her to dinner.
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:53:39 (permalink)
    dazc

    seriously you guys that pay for everything, even just for a few dates, need to wise up!

    There is absoloutely no need to!  it has never ever stopped me from getting anywhere with a woman, be a man, say it like it is, they are paying half and thats that. 

    only mugs pay for everything.  to hell with whats 'ment' to be traditional, that went out years ago with women wtaying at home, not working, not voting etc etc. 


    This is all well and good, until you want to get in the sack with someone ultra stunning.. really hot women dont pay for dates its the sad fact of life lol.


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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:55:09 (permalink)
    jules.j


    Take her for a drink instead and get the first round. After the first round, if she doesn't offer to get you a drink, ask for one!

    I cant stand going out with girls who think that men should pay for everything and then eventually if your lucky let you in their honeypot. So many girls think that just because they are hot they can get what they want. Not in my world.


    It's the 21st century, equality means paying your way.

    once all the bullsh1t is out the way and your sleeping together, then you can treat her to dinner.


    at last! another man with some sense!!
     
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:55:27 (permalink)
    Scott32

    strikalite

    ^^but you're making them feel like a lady Scott, some traditions will never die lol...so she can tell her best mate 'he took me for a lovely meal last night' that's what it's all about :)


    See its traditional fcukers like you that make me have to open my wallet.. tosser lol!!


    lol....I took a girl 'lady'(not lol)down to Stansted airport last year, only just met her but because she was gorgeous muggings 'ere offered to drive her down at 3am...she never offered any petrol money at all, looks like it was my pleasure getting up at 2am :/.....she went on holiday and when she came back didn't want to see me again, now, did she decide this before I was such a kind offering gentleman?
    You live and learn I guess...
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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:58:40 (permalink)
    All the bollox about treating her like a lady........please, we are not back in the dark ages when you would throw your coat down on a puddle for her to walk on lol!

    You can do nice things for a woman,without getting stung for dinner time and time again.


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    Re:Girls who dont offer to pay half for meals 2009/07/13 17:59:05 (permalink)
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    ^^but you're making them feel like a lady Scott, some traditions will never die lol...so she can tell her best mate 'he took me for a lovely meal last night' that's what it's all about :)


    See its traditional fcukers like you that make me have to open my wallet.. tosser lol!!


    lol....I took a girl 'lady'(not lol)down to Stansted airport last year, only just met her but because she was gorgeous muggings 'ere offered to drive her down at 3am...she never offered any petrol money at all, looks like it was my pleasure getting up at 2am :/.....she went on holiday and when she came back didn't want to see me again, now, did she decide this before I was such a kind offering gentleman?
    You live and learn I guess...


    MUG haha. I feel your pain ive done simlar, its what comes of punching above your weight, meens you have to try that much harder lol!

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