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Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it??

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Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it??

I basically went out with this girl a few weeks ago on a few dates. We got on great and I asked her if she wanted anything serious and she said ideally yes. Like an idiot I told her I just wanted to be friends as she is going away to uni in a few months anyway so it would never last.

Now I want her back. Ive realied how much I miss her and she is seeing this other lad (who is a total player and will mess her around like he does all girls). She works in my local pub so I see her a fair bit. I do care about her and think I should give this lad she is seeing a "friendly" word to warn him not to hurt her, or he will see my fist.

Im thinking it could be jeleousy taking over and perhaps I should just forget her and let her do what she wants, and if he messes her around then its her problem?
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    Sprite Goblin
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:32:27 (permalink)
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    Yep, thats life, move on

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:33:45 (permalink)
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    I don't really see it as your place to say anything, she's not your property and more than likely her and her new boyfriend will think your creepy if you do say anything.

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:35:57 (permalink)
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    move on,move up,never look back....
    Life's just too damn short..
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:35:59 (permalink)
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    I think your right Dan. I dont want to look like some obsessive person who lines up all the cans in my cupboard's or anything. lol
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:36:59 (permalink)
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    if he is a player he will get caught out. you could slyly make sure he gets caught out. "friends close, enemies closer" ???

    take ur time, he'll slip up. jump back in her!
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:39:23 (permalink)
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    "HE WILL SEE MY FIST"! jealousy?? Really?? Mate, thats the way it goes, plenty more fish in the sea and all that!
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 12:57:52 (permalink)
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    I've pretty much just given up on my Girlfriend to be single. We had a few problems but they seem minor now (but i guess they would now that i miss her). For the past week i've been banging my head on the wall deciding whether to be with the girl i love or be single... i want to be single to mess about a bit, i'm only 21 and it seemed like we were starting to settle down (she was only 19 too).

    But basically, girls come and go... You fall for them and then get hurt and vice verser. You miss them but time heals :).

    And don't say anything to this lad. Let her find out first hand that he's a player.

    Have you thought that if she wanted to get serious with you and you said no, that maybe she's doing this to get at you?

    If you want to make this work then just tell her how you feel. If you don't then you'll get over it
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:12:41 (permalink)
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    What is the real issue here fella?

    1, you dont want her to be hurt by this lad and want her to be happy

    2, You actually want her back and to be with her again

    if its 2 then are the reasons you split up not still valid? are you willing to have a real relationship with her and maybe try the old "long distance relationship" thing when she moves off to uni? or are you just wanting to be with her until she goes for a bit of fun?

    If its the latter then I reckon you should leave her be, sounds like she is having her fun and maybe you dont like it?

    If your serious about her then you should be sure of your feelings before you mess her head up again.

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:30:03 (permalink)
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    Dobos - My mates think she is trying to make me jeleous the way she's all over him when I am around in the club etc


    Jester - I dont really know what I want tbh. I need to think about it, so your right. Last thing I want to do is fu*k her about.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:34:09 (permalink)
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    Hi Eddie, if the lass is using him to make you jealous like your friends think then you don't need to worry about him hurting her feelings, she is using him as much as he may be using her.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:37:10 (permalink)
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    just split with my long distance relationship, she's 19, blonde, nice body and cracking.... yup, complete package.
    i can't be doing with the long distance thing any more and want someone in the UK.

    Just last night i met another girl who has fancied me for a while and i have no regrets what so ever.

    why? because she is here with me and wants to be here with me

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:41:00 (permalink)
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    If she's off to uni it wouldn't have lasted anyway. Perhaps the first year but not after that. I know it does happen but it tends to be the exception rather than the rule. Just put it out of your mind and don't worry about it.

    You did gain far too much fat though,I mean,you're not muscular at all,you're just a fat mess.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:44:50 (permalink)
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    on the other side of things, my friend has moved iout with his girlfriend after buying a house... she was in uni for 3 years in Canterbury (he was based in portsmouth).
    they made it worked and now looking to get married next september.
    they were together for a year before she want to uni though and its all down to the relationship you have

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 13:55:15 (permalink)
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    If you really like this girl and you think she likes you the best thing you can do is go see her i tell her you made a mistake and want a shot at taking her out again. Sod her new boyfriend after all she's only been with him for a few weeks.

    If she says no u havent lost anything have you.

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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 14:17:26 (permalink)
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    Seemed easy enough to tell her you just wanted to be friends, is it only because someone else has her that you now want her.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 14:36:11 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: PosterBoy

    Seemed easy enough to tell her you just wanted to be friends, is it only because someone else has her that you now want her.


    yeah I think it is.

    Just made me realise what I used to have when I see her with him. Its so true that you dont know what you've got til its gone.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 15:13:22 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: eddie182

    Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it??


    Yes, - about 3 times now. - Will I ever learn ??

    Sometimes things what you can't have are more attractive than things you can.

    Or maybe, it's a case of not knowing what you've got till it's gone.




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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 15:31:41 (permalink)
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    so true. I had been chasing her for weeks, thinking she will always be just a fantasy. All my mates fancy her also and are telling me to get back in there and ask her out again.

    We had a pub quiz where she works last week and my mates made our team name "Rachel will you have me back" (cun*s lol)

    I was embarassed when they called our team name out and all my mates cheered and pointed to me. Rachel saw the funny side at least cuz she just smiled at me.
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    RE: Have you ever given up a girl then regretted it?? 2007/06/15 15:56:57 (permalink)
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    dont chase her mate, let her know how you feel and be honest with her that you feel like you made a mistake but dont wear your balls for earrings

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