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2015/02/14 09:34:15 (permalink)
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Is it a date?

There's this girl at work. She's very attractive and I certainly would love to.
 
We're talking about films and she says that there's one particular film out now that she really wants to see but nobody she knows wants to see it with her. She genuinely wasn't hinting or anything like that. She was simply stating a fact.
 
Anyway, without thinking I immediately said "I'd like to see that film too. I'll go with you". She looked slightly taken aback and then said "ok cool". So now we're going to see it together.
 
I did not ask her out in a romantic way. I simply said that I'd go see a film with her because nobody else would, to which she agreed. Is this simply two work colleagues going to watch a movie or does it sound like it might be some sort of date?
 
Would you make a move or would you simply enjoy the evening, act like a gentleman and just go home and knock one out about what might have been?
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 09:37:24 (permalink)
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There's no doubt in mind you're on a date.  You made a move, she thought about it for a split second and accepted.  Game on lol.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 09:46:07 (permalink)
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Guys will see it as a date
I imagine she sees it as going to see a film with a colleague.
 
If it happens another time it's a date.

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 09:55:09 (permalink)
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You will have to play it as it goes mate. 
Just enjoy the film and her company.
If you make a move and it doesn`t work out , where`s the harm? she will be flattered either way. 
Have to trust your instincts and not think about it too much (easier said than done I know)
There has to be certain attraction for her to agree to go to the movie with you. 
 
 
 
 

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 10:22:15 (permalink)
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Ignore your work colleagues and any jibes that will no doubt arise.
This girl surely has some trust in you, if not a degree of affection/attraction too, otherwise she would have made an excuse.
Take things steady mate. Enjoy the movie and hopefully go for a drink afterwards. Watch her body language and eye contact closely and don't rush things. If she sees you as a gentleman, things should progress. Good luck.
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Is it a date? 2015/02/14 10:24:25 (permalink)
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Movie for what could potentially be a "first date"- brave move.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 11:00:34 (permalink)
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If she says yes to a few scoops of gelato afterwards your in their!

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 11:03:26 (permalink)
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What film is it?
 
If it's 50 shades... it's a date.

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 11:30:07 (permalink)
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Haha no, not 50 shades. It's nightcrawler.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 12:54:41 (permalink)
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I would hedge my bets. Once the film has finished, ask her if she'd like to grab a drink. That way, if she was only wanting to see the film, she can make her excuses and leave, but if she thought she was on a date it avoids you missing the opportunity.

Making a move before the film is risky, as if in her mind she is just going to see a film with a colleague, it'll be an awkward couple of hours for you sitting next to her after she's shot you down.
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Re: 2015/02/14 13:28:36 (permalink)
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If she is very tactile etc then... ur in.

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 16:38:00 (permalink)
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My first thought is no. If she wanted it to be a date i would have thought she would mention it hoping you'll say I'll go with you. But because she looked taken aback, she 1) could have felt it would seem funny to say no or 2) just thought , yea **** it, i wanna see the film.

So based on that id take it as a no but see if she gives off any signals to suggest otherwise

  




 
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 16:54:26 (permalink)
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Try surprise sex. Depending on the outcome (which you need to post on here) i will let you know.


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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 17:08:58 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby WhiteSnake 2015/02/15 09:54:22
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Dont be messing about with nonsense in the cinema! its for kids. Cant believe all the comments about trying this and that in the cinema.
You cant do anything in the cinema is a myth, a quick grope and fumble yes but to me thats nothing unless your 15. If your a couple and plan it right maybe but first date. Ridiculous.
 
People dont just all sit there saying oh look that couple next to us are shagging on a first date Isnt that nice.
 
Watch the film, connect with her, touch her hand or something but just watch the film. If shes got anything about her, she aint thinking hope he jumps me in the pictures.
 
Get engrossed in the film, chat about it after , charm her show your not a complete ape ,maybe have a drink and then you gotta make the move back to hers or yours and if you want something more than a shag then you may have to wait a couple of goes.
 
It always depends on what you want , ive had plenty of first date f..ks but rarely want something meaning full with that person. A fumble in the cinema is just lame.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 17:27:37 (permalink)
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Do you remember the popcorn trick from the movie "Diner".  I think you should try it.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 17:35:48 (permalink)
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Do you remember the popcorn trick from the movie "Diner".  I think you should try it.


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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 17:52:46 (permalink)
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Quite simple. Just ask her after the film if she fancies going straight for a drink. If she says yes then you go for a drink and take it from there. If she says no or makes her excuses then you just say, thanks I had a good evening and tell her that if she needs a cinema buddy in the future then you'd be happy to do it again. 
 
Don't try anything in the cinema, play it cool.
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 18:42:56 (permalink)
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what do you get on like at work? Is there any flirting or lingering looks at eachother .
I'd just say after the film fancy a drink or a bite to eat and keep it casual without putting pressure on yourself and gauge how it goes from there.
woman are a whole different species haha and sometimes impossible to read .
good luck though and keep us posted .

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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 22:41:41 (permalink)
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When i was working in glasgow i use to go work 1 weekend a month. There was very few people there on the weekends so if you where with someone who lived local you spent most of the evenings on your own. So your options are limited as what you can do on your own. So i use to hit the cinemas on my own... yes i looked like a sado.
Anyway i was sat waiting for this film to come on.. i cant even remember what it was. Anyway the cinema was dead there was maybe 8 people in there.  This girl comes up to me i was only 18/19 at the time she'd of been late 20's. She says 'You hear on you own'.... I said yeah and she said oh ok... then sat down next to me. I started talking to me. Anyway after the film i asked her if she wanted to grab a drink or something she said no i was just here for the movie. Next time i went the movies i saw here as i went in. Got talking to her and we eneded up sitting togeather again anyway we became film buddys. So we didnt look like total sados haha.
 
So maybe she just dosnt want to be a sado either. Id still say ask her for the drink tho!
 

 
 
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Re: Is it a date? 2015/02/14 23:37:59 (permalink)
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Change of plan. Nightcrawler is no longer in any of the cinemas near to us so we can't go see it together. I have to see if there are any other films she wants to see or if it was just this one.
 
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You cant do anything in the cinema is a myth, a quick grope and fumble yes but to me thats nothing unless your 15

 
Nowt wrong with a grope and a fumble.
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