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2007/06/16 21:55:07 (permalink)
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Life gone to Hell!

My life has been turned to **** by my fkn sister in law as she was supposed to look after her parents dog when their away on holiday but she started her c*** about the dog so we got volunteered and i went mad as she didnt even discuss it with me she just said "ok". This caused a major drama all day with her sister saying she cant do it as she,s feeeling "low", my wife said very little to her and i had to bite my lip as my daughters where around, well ive just put my two daughters to bed about an hour ago in tears as they heard their mother say to me " this isnt working im moving out with the girls on monday". We have went through the wringer for each other and tonight i looked at her and i knew she wasnt kidding, so at the moment im sitting wondering what to do as my life unravels before my eyes.

"A man can be anything he wants as long as he,s willing to pay the price"
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    drab4
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/16 21:58:30 (permalink)
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    Surely your wife won't move out because you had one row about your parents dog mate?

    She may have meant what she said at the time, but I bet by tomorrow morning she will have changed her mind

    Keep your chin up fella
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/16 22:02:45 (permalink)
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    Agree, lots of things said in the heat of the moment mate, just let her have some time and space to rationalize it all and I`m sure she`ll come round

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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/16 22:05:47 (permalink)
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    i think your wife has said this in the heat of the moment mate,im sure she will feel differently tomorrow so dont worry too much.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/16 22:45:11 (permalink)
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    Bro, dont sit and argue with the Wife over this, let it go and sleep on it. Tomorrows another day and will all probably be different when its cooled a bit, as the lads above say.

    Have a few beers and forget it for now. Best thing you can do.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/16 23:00:44 (permalink)
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    bring her a bunch of flowers and some chocolates say the magic words and say youre sorry and you should patch things up nicely
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 00:36:40 (permalink)
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    Sorry to hear about your argument buddy, like whats been said above she might be ok in the morning when she's slept on it, it's also been mentioned about the chocolates and flowers and the love word works wonders. She can't just walk out and take the girls with her over a stupid argument over a dog.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 05:15:26 (permalink)
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    Hope it was 'in the heat of the moment' and everything's fine. You've always struck me as a happy familty man.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 11:48:48 (permalink)
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    Happy Fathers Day. Well its official, we talked this morning and we agreed that its better that i leave the house as my eldest daughters school is only 30 yards away and the youngest nursery is quite near as well plus all their friends and play places are here. Ive had to start from scratch before so i know where to go from here not that if i had the choice id do so, Ive been thinking i may head back to Glasgow even though it will mean a bit of travelling to see the girls but that what you do when you have a family the funny thing is its all very civilised we,re even going out for Sunday lunch for fathers day and we,ve decided not to ruin the girls weekend by hitting them with this as they are young in my opinion far too young to take this all in , the eldest whose 6 yr old will find it the hardest but my 2 yr old will just think " wheres daddy?". Ill have to start looking to see where i can find a flat, furniture etc plus ill need a new PC !, So ill be offline in few days so i better get all my supps ordered now before i need to find a cyber cafe.

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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 12:04:31 (permalink)
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    im sorry for your loss mate, however, being happy in life is what its all about and it would be wrong to stay in something that isn't working.

    take care.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 12:50:09 (permalink)
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    Jeez mate, must have been a bit more to it than the dog arguement.

    feel for you mate, all the best

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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 12:56:34 (permalink)
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    Oh Colin :/

    This can't just be all over the Dog debarcle !

    We're all here for you - be strong dude

    And though she be but little, she is fierce..
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 13:04:06 (permalink)
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    This is the thing, we go along our merry way and we are a family normal problems and all the rest, however when her t*** sister appears from deepest Surrey the whole world goes to s*** because everyone has to cater to her every whim. Here,s an example, her dad gave her his Citreon Xantia last year which was in amazing nick and we were prepared to buy it from him he GAVE her the car for nothing!, she wouldnt even came up to Scotland to collect it so guess who drove it all the way down?...my wife, she had it less than six months & totalled it ( this is the third car of her dads she wrecked) she then buys herself a new car, has it exactly five minutes and backs it into a pole and thinks its funny!. The woman is thick as s*** and a waster and she thinks her sister is wasting her time with me. I dont get on with her and i try to keep my temper but there are times when she thinks it all revolves around her and my family can get out the way so this causes dramas every year but she cant get by the " but she,s my sister"

    "A man can be anything he wants as long as he,s willing to pay the price"
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 13:25:08 (permalink)
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    It's a shame that your wife thinks like that, her sister sounds like the person who tries to manipulate people and wrap them round her finger. I'm not sure what I can suggest, though keep your head up.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 13:47:50 (permalink)
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    surely your wife must realise what your sister in law is playing at?

    you say "this causes dramas every year". assuming she comes up every year? everythings cool the rest of the time I take it?

    sorry to hear this anyway mate. hope your missus comes to her sences.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 13:47:54 (permalink)
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    The thing that gets me is that she says ive not changed in over 5 years but not long ago she was telling a mate that i was a better person now and more mellow for getting back into training as american football was too violent, what more can i say?.

    "A man can be anything he wants as long as he,s willing to pay the price"
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    colin.d
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 13:49:55 (permalink)
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    Everything is cool for the rest of the time, we have our battles like any other couples but every time she shows face it just goes pearshaped bigtime.

    "A man can be anything he wants as long as he,s willing to pay the price"
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 14:17:57 (permalink)
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    Keep strong Colin for the girls sakes, you will come out of this a better person much stronger and with your head held high. Life throws these challenges at us from time to time to see how we get on, it's just a tester for whats to come in another life. That last bit might sound daft I reckon it's true. Keep ya chin up buddy.
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 14:30:52 (permalink)
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    stay strong mate, sound slike a pretty bad situation and i do feel for you.

    i had to move away from my daughter when i split up with my ex, but i still have a fantastic relationship with my wee girl, i moved from paisley to airdrie, so its not like i can just pop round a nd see her whenever, youve just got to try make the best of the situation your in.
    and beleive me mine is a truly awful situation to be in.

    just try make sure your relationship with your kids doesnt suffer they still need there dad, probably more than ever!

    i know its difficult mate but time really is the best healer.

    good luck mate
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    RE: Life gone to Hell! 2007/06/17 15:22:43 (permalink)
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    just don't leave.
    refuse to argue, don't answer back, leave the room.

    it will pass, the evil sister will get lost and all will be well in a few days.
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