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2007/06/10 10:42:38 (permalink)

Mums neighbor wants money!!

Some people just take the mic and it takes allmy strength not to give him a smack.
Last month my mum gets her new flat, gets the plastering done and also some decorating, look very good and money well spent.
The a few days later the bloke who lives 2 dorrs down, pops in says hi and introduces himself as one of her neighbors and immeadiately says the decorating and lastering is not too good 'you should have called me' I would have done it for half the price. So when she needed something doing in the house, she asks him, seeing that he can do things for half the price. He comes over works for 2 hours, does not fix the problem and wants £50, then a few days later he says he'll fix it, comes over says he has no time but can he have £50 in advance, mum says no, he starts to CRY and says his dads dead and he's very emotional, she gives him her £20 food money, he says that not enough, she says tough. The Mums boiler breaks down, she asks him as it was an emergency, says it will cosy £80 and he'll get the part, and fix it tomorrow, tomorrow comes and he sends his 5 year old boy over to say 'dad can't come over'! He says he'll be over at p.30 tomorrow, does not turn up all day. I hear this from my fiancee, I get very wound up and go round there 'just for a word', I do not like violence even though I am bigger than most people thanks to our great love of bodybuilding, I was just going to go over and ask for the money. I would talk my fiancee as a witness as I don't want him making some story of me being agressive. Any way get to my mums, and she says he just left, but she had a word and asked for the dough as he was not a man of his word and he just says 'what ever' you'll get your money tomorrow!! And acted like an arse. I am trying my hardest not to smack him or throw him about. I am sick of people in general being conned by idiots and being taken for a ride becasue of there good nature, it happens all too often and no one says a thing. Sorry if this is log winded, but it does feel theraputic ha ha.
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    RedHotF
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 10:45:23 (permalink)
    He sounds like a sheister and a cowboy! ..... and sorry to hear that your mum has been so trusting as to get taken in by him
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 10:48:49 (permalink)
    damn right RedHotF, just gets me wound up when I think of this, thanks for the support
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 10:50:31 (permalink)
    im not sure if theres anything you can do from a legal point of view just make sure youd mum stays away from him and maybe ring the police to see if theres anything you can do

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 10:51:05 (permalink)
    PS: FONG HIM GOOD

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 10:58:50 (permalink)
    was actually thinking of calling the police to get some advice, might just do that. Thing is I can't be too agressive as she lives there and that wouldbe every uncomfortable on her.
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:00:43 (permalink)

    ORIGINAL: bash31

    was actually thinking of calling the police to get some advice, might just do that. Thing is I can't be too agressive as she lives there and that wouldbe every uncomfortable on her.


    yeah mate, you and your mum are victims here dont wanna give him any kinda case, just ring the police and see what you can do. im sure theres something because what he dids illegal, atleast here in australia

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:13:46 (permalink)
    He's not only a thief, but he sounds like a complete c*nt, ripping off women, ripping off his neighbours. Id make it VERY clear what will happen to him if the money isnt returned IMMEDIATELY


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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:20:40 (permalink)
    When talking fails........................




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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:22:45 (permalink)

    ORIGINAL: Laughing_Man

    When talking fails........................






    musta taken you a while to get all those emoticons out lol

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:28:39 (permalink)
    cheers for the support guys, Luaghing man, where the hell do you get thoses icons lol and tac, where about are you in Essex, I'm in Braintree. As for the neighbor, gonna wait till this evening to see if he drops off the money, if not I will have a stern word, by the way his wife works and cares for the kids, poor woman is really nice by all accounts, he's just a plum
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:38:21 (permalink)
    its your mams fault for giving someone she just met money
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:40:15 (permalink)

    ORIGINAL: IvanDrago

    its your mams fault for giving someone she just met money


    watch it mate, im a big fan of the rocky movies

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:52:30 (permalink)
    lol

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 11:54:16 (permalink)
    You need to go and collar this bloke, he is one a$$hole, If I were you I would go over there and bang on the door, when he answers I would tell him that he has tricked my mother out of £100 and you want it back NOW!
    If he says he will do the work eventually, tell him you don't want him to do the work, in fact you don't want to see him any where near your mums or you will ensure he qualifies for invalidity benefit in the very near future, whan telling him this try and speak quietly, but letting him see how angry you are, lean towards him get right in his face.
    Tell him if you don't get the money now, you will go to the police and explain the situation to them, i.e. gaining money through deception.
    Don't hit him, you will only get in trouble, hopefully if you come across menacing enough he will cough up, if not I would involve the police, if you still get no joy I would try to get him on his own, preferably when it's dark and give him a slap or two, if he calls the police, you can deny all knowledge saying you were at your mums fixing the things he was supposed to,lol

    Let us know how you get on.

    good luck.
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 12:50:44 (permalink)
    sorry if this sounds abit imature to some of u guys, but if it was my mother i would first be giving her a stiff talkin to for being so silly then kicking the crap outta that guy if he refused to give back the money or doesnt fix the problem in the next few days..
    then tell me mother next time to call me and i will sort out the problem
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 13:07:24 (permalink)
    it's hard to 'win' with people who behave as strangely as that, he sounds very pathetic & manipulative, best steer well clear of those types i find
    I'd imagine it will be difficult to prove that she gave him the money?
    Unfortunately your mum has just taken him @ his word & assumed he was a decent sort, clearly he's exactly the opposite.
    Best of luck & keep your cool.
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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 13:18:07 (permalink)
    im not a fan of violence but that man is a total d*ckhead..HIT HIM!
    he is a coward conning a powerless lady

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 13:24:29 (permalink)
    im not telling you to do this, but id go and take my money back, either in cash or material to the value of.

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    RE: Mums neighbor wants money!! 2007/06/10 13:39:00 (permalink)

    ORIGINAL: NDT

    You need to go and collar this bloke, he is one a$$hole, If I were you I would go over there and bang on the door, when he answers I would tell him that he has tricked my mother out of £100 and you want it back NOW!
    If he says he will do the work eventually, tell him you don't want him to do the work, in fact you don't want to see him any where near your mums or you will ensure he qualifies for invalidity benefit in the very near future, whan telling him this try and speak quietly, but letting him see how angry you are, lean towards him get right in his face.
    Tell him if you don't get the money now, you will go to the police and explain the situation to them, i.e. gaining money through deception.
    Don't hit him, you will only get in trouble, hopefully if you come across menacing enough he will cough up, if not I would involve the police, if you still get no joy I would try to get him on his own, preferably when it's dark and give him a slap or two, if he calls the police, you can deny all knowledge saying you were at your mums fixing the things he was supposed to,lol

    Let us know how you get on.

    good luck.



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