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kevinengland123
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2018/06/07 14:41:09 (permalink)
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Not " fancying gf anymore "

Am now on maybe my 4th proper girlfriend. However i feel bad saying this But the same thing is happening as it did with all the others. When I first started getting with them i thought they were really good looking. As time went by I seem to not fancy them anymore. This has happened to every single one.

Anyone else get this ? What is it?

This is based on looks only by the way

I am now in my early 30s. This started from early 20s
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 15:28:09 (permalink)
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**** happens
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 16:04:36 (permalink)
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as with anything in life... No matter how good something is, and how much you wanted it when you didn't have it, you get used to it. 

  




 
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 17:35:27 (permalink)
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as with anything in life... No matter how good something is, and how much you wanted it when you didn't have it, you get used to it. 


This ! When you first meet you only see the good bits and turn a blind eye to the bad bits , when the bad bits start to affect you they do become a lot less desirable , strange isn't it !

How long did it take until you stopped fancying them ?
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 18:15:05 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby doc 2018/06/07 18:40:38
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About half a second after he came!
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 18:21:19 (permalink)
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Think you can apply this outlook to anything in life, whether it be relationships, material things or otherwise. As others mentioned it’s familiarity and the same thing no matter how appealing can potentially get boring after a while.

May be a good idea to get some space or take some time off rather than throw the towel in entirely though?

Sometimes in absence we realise how much we appreciate something
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 18:27:15 (permalink)
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Happened when I was 16, took me 2 marriages and a 35 years for that lovey sh*t to fall in to place...Can't help though. 

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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 18:55:14 (permalink)
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For every beautiful woman there’s a guy who can’t stand her. Ur programmed to spread ur’seed’ and want a new one all the time, such is life of animals. cheer up we’re all alike
 
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btw I’m happly married with a kid, do I fancy other women? Ofcourse, do I cheat? Hell no. Too much to lose, to little to gain.
post edited by vanderlei - 2018/06/07 18:57:43

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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 19:53:29 (permalink)
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Until you build a real connection with someone, someone who genuinely has your back, will support you in whatever you do, can be fully trusted all day long, with shared goals and dreams - then it'll always be this way.
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/07 23:42:22 (permalink)
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But being single is sooooooo much .ore fun........
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/08 07:17:15 (permalink)
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go on a two week holiday with no contact.
 
Come back and re-assess.
 
You'll find its just they are there all the time and you dont realise what youve missed.
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/09 10:59:46 (permalink)
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You just love the chase, it's natural. I've realised that about myself over the years, if I'm not kept on my toes I lose interest.

Alt er mulig
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Re: Not " fancying gf anymore " 2018/06/09 12:29:55 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby simonboyle 2018/06/09 13:25:15
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crooks
Until you build a real connection with someone, someone who genuinely has your back, will support you in whatever you do, can be fully trusted all day long, with shared goals and dreams - then it'll always be this way.


This.
 
I think in modern times the norm is for people to meet often at places like clubs, they get together and have sex that same night or soon after based exclusively on physical attraction, then if they stay together not long after as they start to actually get to know each other they find out they'd don't really like each other all that much as that novelty factor of seeing a brand new pair of tits wears off over time. This just leads to one short shallow relationship after another.
 
There is not "fix" for this, and there isn't necessarily anything wrong with it if that's all you want from life. If you want a real long term relationship you have to start looking past the physical appearance to someone who you genuinely like spending time with.
 
I see guys constantly complaining about the missus, how they have to go out to the pub to get away from her for a while and what not, seemingly they're only together because the sex is (or was) good and now there's kids and mortgage involved, I think they're just not with the right person as I have no problem at all spending all day with my wife.
post edited by Uriel - 2018/06/09 12:33:29
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