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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/01 18:11:36 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby tellersquill 2019/03/02 00:08:05
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Something I used to see loads of when I worked at the gym, was women telling me not only did they not find Bodybuilder levels of muscle 'not attractive' ..but they would use words like repulsive, ugly, and most often, disgusting.

...and then, almost every time, when in the presence of a disgusting, ugly, repulsive bodybuilder in decent shape, these ladies would turn into a giggling hot mess.

I suppose it's no different from some of us guys saying we don't like the bimbo glamour model look? Although while guys might say it's not their preference, we don't pretend to be disgusted by it?

Its not the Bimbo bit that disgusts me , it's the up there own arses  , over confident , high and mighty , look down there noses at you type birds that disgust me , pretty Bimbos sometimes have this personality , I suspect women think a lot of bodybuilders have these traits. There are some birds that are totally stunning but any sign of this and its a complete no go , would never bang a bird like this , a total turn off . Id rather have a 5/10 with a good personality than a 9/10 stuck up bitch, you can always turn the lights off.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/01 19:17:02 (permalink)
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Its not the Bimbo bit that disgusts me , it's the up there own arses  , over confident , high and mighty , look down there noses at you type birds that disgust me , pretty Bimbos sometimes have this personality , I suspect women think a lot of bodybuilders have these traits. There are some birds that are totally stunning but any sign of this and its a complete no go , would never bang a bird like this , a total turn off . Id rather have a 5/10 with a good personality than a 9/10 stuck up bitch, you can always turn the lights off.




Doc you remind me of this video. I'm sure everyone has seen it many times but it's always worth a laugh.

The crazy/hot chart

https://youtu.be/XuI6GTY9eVc
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/01 19:34:52 (permalink)
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As Dorian said getting big was a personal goal aimed at eventually winning 6 Olympia titles and not about pulling birds. If pulling is your only goal then earn a Billion £'s, have a 10" dick and become a comedian 👍

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/01 20:11:09 (permalink)
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More while being bigger.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/03 22:05:28 (permalink)
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I've always found being tall and lean, but average looking to be a bummer. The height kind of puts you on their radar but they then have to let you know that they are not interested.
 
I think knowing how to dress in my case would make something of a difference, but I'm crap at that too. I admire guys on the lean side who know how to dress and aren't self conscious of their build.
 
Anyway, I'm a loser with women - don't know why I'm typing this stuff.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 08:27:25 (permalink)
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I've always found being tall and lean, but average looking to be a bummer. The height kind of puts you on their radar but they then have to let you know that they are not interested.
 
I think knowing how to dress in my case would make something of a difference, but I'm crap at that too. I admire guys on the lean side who know how to dress and aren't self conscious of their build.
 
Anyway, I'm a loser with women - don't know why I'm typing this stuff.


Success with women is mostly looks, social skills, and getting yourself out there.
 
You can improve all three if you're focused.

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 13:15:42 (permalink)
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I've tried. That's why I say I'm a loser in that regard. I didn't really get the confidence to go out to bars and clubs and try and meet women until my early 30s. I was a hard case in terms of issues. Trying to act confident when you have very low self esteem is difficult but in my case I lack the social skills to do it. The only way I can create rapport is if a woman makes a 50/50 effort, but in my view that doesn't happen unless you have a good social circle and meet people in that way. Trying to "go out" and meet people has its problems if you lack the skills and confidence.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 15:42:21 (permalink)
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I've tended to find I attract more attention when I'm not interested in it.... I guess you come across with a more relaxed confidence if you are with someone and aren't talking to a girl with a direct ulterior motive in wanting to get a quick shag out of it (or a date perhaps, but who's after a date here LOL). Also as you get older and more comfortable with your own space and skin there is an air of not so much confidence but just not any fear about how others may perceive or judge you

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 16:47:19 (permalink)
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After a certain point it's a case of diminishing returns because generally most women perceive that you will spend more time in the gym than on them, more time getting ready than them, or you are arrogant and must love yourself.
 
So I don't think it's so much about the look as what that look is perceived as. Though also a lot of women don't like huge, veiny, shredded muscle because it doesn't look comfortable and they love a cuddle.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 17:09:22 (permalink)
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Women love my huge, veiny, shredded muscle lol
 
 
 

 
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/04 21:23:35 (permalink)
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After a certain point it's a case of diminishing returns because generally most women perceive that you will spend more time in the gym than on them, more time getting ready than them, or you are arrogant and must love yourself.
 
So I don't think it's so much about the look as what that look is perceived as. Though also a lot of women don't like huge, veiny, shredded muscle because it doesn't look comfortable and they love a cuddle.


agree with the first part , a lot of women I see say they want the smaller more athletic geeky look , but some of me thinks this is them going for a safer /more inline with there piers and what they are expected to like, but secretly they like a bigger bloke . When you have love Island promoting the pretty boys/girls this isn't real life, a lot of the birds on there are way too skinny and don't have quality arse/tits  . But most of the athletic/metro/love island guys everyone does like will definitely spend longer getting ready , straighteners, makeup etc . A muscular baldy can take 5 mins getting ready ( including shower)
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/05 03:39:16 (permalink)
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After a certain point it's a case of diminishing returns because generally most women perceive that you will spend more time in the gym than on them, more time getting ready than them, or you are arrogant and must love yourself.
 
So I don't think it's so much about the look as what that look is perceived as. Though also a lot of women don't like huge, veiny, shredded muscle because it doesn't look comfortable and they love a cuddle.


So the argument on roosh site is that a natural can never look 'too big' whilst maintaining body fat at sub fifteen percent so we don't have to worry about diminishing returns.

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/07 18:27:07 (permalink)
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The good news guys is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's a cliche but true. If it wasn't then we would all chase the same 1% of the opposite/same sex.

I have mates who are great looking guys and have their pick. The woman they married do absolutely nothing for me but my mates believe they are so lucky and that they are punching above their weight.

I'm sure plenty of woman out there love big muscles on guys but I'm equally sure there are the same number who like small stringy guys.

Something that hasn't been mentioned. Girls can often be attracted to those similar to their first loves, their fathers.
post edited by billy2shots - 2019/03/07 18:28:09
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/07 19:19:48 (permalink)
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My Father-in-Law looks like Gollum so I'm fcuked then.

 
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/07 19:24:55 (permalink)
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My Father-in-Law looks like Gollum so I'm fcuked then.


I bet you are still his daughters's precious.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/07 19:26:38 (permalink)
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lol

 
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/07 19:30:12 (permalink)
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Aye one ring to rule them all 🤣

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/10 22:49:07 (permalink)
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What are you after? Do you enjoy just hooking up repeatedly, or are you looking for a woman to stay with? When I was "in shape" IE looked good in a tight t shirt, slim waist etc I got more unsolicited looks and attention and the hookups always revealed themselves as either as much of a slag as me, or were just shallow bitches looking for a sap to bust the balls off for the rest of his life. As I got bigger and not bothered about fat so much I found the women were just better, would do anything for you and could be trusted. older women just want a man to look like a man, to give off the impression that you can look after her. This could be by looking fianacially successful or the old fashioned way by just being a big lump and having a certain look about you.
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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/11 03:01:33 (permalink)
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What are you after? Do you enjoy just hooking up repeatedly, or are you looking for a woman to stay with? When I was "in shape" IE looked good in a tight t shirt, slim waist etc I got more unsolicited looks and attention and the hookups always revealed themselves as either as much of a slag as me, or were just shallow bitches looking for a sap to bust the balls off for the rest of his life. As I got bigger and not bothered about fat so much I found the women were just better, would do anything for you and could be trusted. older women just want a man to look like a man, to give off the impression that you can look after her. This could be by looking fianacially successful or the old fashioned way by just being a big lump and having a certain look about you.


I wouldn't even be happy with myself over 20% body fat. For me its the spectrum between 10 and 20 that's acceptable. 
 
As for women - i'm 32 and ready for a relationship. I tend to date 23 to 30, but recently I've broken the rule and started dating a 33 year old (the only reason this age scares me is because I don't want kids for another 5 or so years and they tend to want them sooner)

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Re: Size and Attracting the Opposite Sex 2019/03/11 19:33:22 (permalink)
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Horses for courses, women who date men based on a social preference rather than personal are highly retarded and best avoided.

I’ve never been big in the sense some of the dudes on here have been, at best well toned but can’t really say I’ve noticed myself as a fanny magnet when in top tip shape.

I’m guessing though when one feels confident then that shows and the ladies lust after confident men let’s be honest. At the height of my own whoring I was a bad boy and aloof, this has been and will remain the universal leg opener I’m afraid, don’t be fooled by the modern hipster feminist types who preach cucking and “current year” values, this will pass soon.

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