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2011/03/24 21:29:29 (permalink)

So im seeing my dad on sunday

Hey guys, need a bit of advice here
 
im seeing my dad on sunday, first time i will have seen him in 8 years or so.
 
he isnt coming to my house because maybe it wouldnt be suitable to just land in after 8 years of no contact because of my mum and all so were going to meet up somwhere, problem is where?
 
i cant think of anywere that would be suitable... i was thinking maybe a pub or something but i dont want to stand in public and be like hey? long time no see
 
yano what i mean, so anyone have any ideas?
 
thanks all
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:30:24 (permalink)
    Starbucks ?
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:31:26 (permalink)
    just somewhere public mate , pub , restaurant , cafe etc
     
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:33:27 (permalink)
    yeah but dont wanna be standing in a pub or something after not seeing him for 8 years he wont know what i look like and im sure i wont reconignise him that well, we wont be able to drink either beause wel be both driving
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:35:30 (permalink)
    Maybe an all male sauna somewhere?
     
    Seriously, what about a quiet cafe or bar? It will have to be in public if it's at neither house.
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:37:43 (permalink)
    Are you expecting to get emotional when you meet him?
     
    If so, maybe arrange to meet up with him in a park and go for a little walk. You can always go to the pub with him later on once you've broken the ice, but there'll be fewer prying eyes in the park for you to feel embarrased should you or he shed a tear or two.
     
    Hope the meeting goes well.
     
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:39:39 (permalink)
    Osagi

    Are you expecting to get emotional when you meet him?

    If so, maybe arrange to meet up with him in a park and go for a little walk. You can always go to the pub with him later on once you've broken the ice, but there'll be fewer prying eyes in the park for you to feel embarrased should you or he shed a tear or two.

    Hope the meeting goes well.

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    thanks mate, no i wont be crying but im sure there will be a hug or two, maybe something along those lines anyway its gonna be very strange for me havnt seen him since i was about 12 kinda panicing and very nervous :)
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:41:15 (permalink)
    On the down side mate don't expect to much as my gf meet her father after 20 years and it was all we'll do this and that and now she doesn't see him anymore. Total let down for her as she was expecting more than she got. Just a thought mate
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:42:13 (permalink)
    Any pub restaurants nearby? Plenty of those kinds of places are public, but have booth areas and more secluded tables to be able to keep things out of the public eye sort of.
     
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:43:36 (permalink)
    bmc

    On the down side mate don't expect to much as my gf meet her father after 20 years and it was all we'll do this and that and now she doesn't see him anymore. Total let down for her as she was expecting more than she got. Just a thought mate

     
    lol thanks dude well i havnt seen him since i was 12 and i know what hes like so i hope this time he may stick to things and ill see him on a regular basis
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:52:36 (permalink)
    Wasn't trying to put a damper on it mate as I hope it all works out for you but it doesn't always go that way. Good luck anyway
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:54:59 (permalink)
     
    Just hope this goes well mate. Take him as you find him and dont pre judge the guy from anything you have been told about him.
     
    Be good to hear how this goes :)

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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:57:45 (permalink)
    will try to update u m8 when i meet him and tell u about it :) just wondering how much hes changed last time he seen me i was just a child, gonna be interesting...very interesting been talking to him on the phone alot so ok conversation wise
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 21:58:24 (permalink)
    Osagi idea is tops aint spoke to mine in coming up to 23 years next month.
    Guess im stubborn lol

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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 22:01:10 (permalink)
    Just out of interest was you brought up with a step dad?
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 22:14:47 (permalink)
    nope just me and my mum
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 22:45:44 (permalink)
    Hope it goes well mate, good luck.

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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/24 22:53:40 (permalink)
    I can relate to this as i hadn't seen my dad for about 6/7 years and went to see him last Saturday. It was weird kind of like we never stopped speaking. I have two kids now and last time i seen him i had none so had my little boy with me which helped things. Good luck mate.
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/25 00:11:07 (permalink)
    i'd go for a coffee bar personally, informal and it's generally a meeting point for a lot of people so it wont be seen as strange if you give him a hug or whatever.

    All the best with it anyway mate, hope it works out for you both.
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    Re:So im seeing my dad on sunday 2011/03/25 01:12:51 (permalink)
    Take him to the Bot
     
    Good luck anyway chap.
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