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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 14:13:57 (permalink)
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I actually love him and i wish he was my dad i swear, im not even joking. Ive watched so many of his videos and im dying to read his books but i have to admit there are times where i dont understand what he even means, i can follow it for the most part but hes on another level intellectually obviously and im no scholar. If anyone has any suggestions on anything else i can read or explore to increase my awareness, im all ears or eyes rather in this instance.

12 rules for life is a difficult book to read , very obvious when you are reading it but does point out a lot of mistakes we all make daily that leads to unhappiness , I even give in to women when it feels wrong , i know i shouldnt but cant think of the reason why and that makes me look arkward or stubborn , this book fills in those gaps , wish I had read it 10 years ago.


fck it, ill give it a bash it may be something I can revisit frequently?


something we know are instinctively wrong , but we have lost touch with reality that much we no longer know why , too much materialism , social media , subversion  I have listened tot he book on audible quite a few times and it's something i revisit daily/weekly when put in a stressful spot and need to find reasons to justify my instincts.  
 
I wish I have the brain of JP , but I dont so the next best thing is to have him as my virtual counselor with his books and podcasts .




yes, I sound like an old codger but I fear for my kids at times I think the world is going to be so confusing but then I think they'll probably just get conditioned and take it as the norm. I'm not sure what option is the worst. My son is 8 and the whole anti-man attitude (I don't know the correct terms) really concerns me. I want him to grow up to be a man, certainly a better man than me! and I don't mean I want him to be macho or 'hench' or a womaniser but a MAN and even that term/word is losing it's meaning and legitimacy, never mind what it actually represents. I want him to be a good PERSON and a MAN!!! (hits a crab most muscular)
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 14:14:35 (permalink)
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I actually love him and i wish he was my dad i swear, im not even joking. Ive watched so many of his videos and im dying to read his books but i have to admit there are times where i dont understand what he even means, i can follow it for the most part but hes on another level intellectually obviously and im no scholar. If anyone has any suggestions on anything else i can read or explore to increase my awareness, im all ears or eyes rather in this instance.

12 rules for life is a difficult book to read , very obvious when you are reading it but does point out a lot of mistakes we all make daily that leads to unhappiness , I even give in to women when it feels wrong , i know i shouldnt but cant think of the reason why and that makes me look arkward or stubborn , this book fills in those gaps , wish I had read it 10 years ago.


fck it, ill give it a bash it may be something I can revisit frequently?


something we know are instinctively wrong , but we have lost touch with reality that much we no longer know why , too much materialism , social media , subversion  I have listened tot he book on audible quite a few times and it's something i revisit daily/weekly when put in a stressful spot and need to find reasons to justify my instincts.  
 
I wish I have the brain of JP , but I dont so the next best thing is to have him as my virtual counselor with his books and podcasts .




yes, I sound like an old codger but I fear for my kids at times I think the world is going to be so confusing but then I think they'll probably just get conditioned and take it as the norm. I'm not sure what option is the worst. My son is 8 and the whole anti-man attitude (I don't know the correct terms) really concerns me. I want him to grow up to be a man, certainly a better man than me! and I don't mean I want him to be macho or 'hench' or a womaniser but a MAN and even that term/word is losing it's meaning and legitimacy, never mind what it actually represents. I want him to be a good PERSON and a MAN!!! (hits a crab most muscular)
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 14:15:47 (permalink)
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I totally want him to be JACKED tho!!!
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 15:07:17 (permalink)
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Don't agree that comedy is dead or comedians are too scared to make jokes for fear of offending someone - have you guys never seen things like Roast Battle on Comedy Central, or any stand-up from Jimmy Carr, Frankie Boyle etc? 
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 15:27:01 (permalink)
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 but a MAN and even that term/word is losing it's meaning and legitimacy, never mind what it actually represents. I want him to be a good PERSON and a MAN!!! (hits a crab most muscular)


in the next few years that will be deemed as bigoted . 
 
I dont see any way back to reverse the trend we are on , the west is becoming sissyfied .  Equality means to have an advantage , pointing out the facts is racist .
 
We will just become sperm donors as time goes on . I really wish all of these man haters would group together and form their own commune of equality , as times goes on they would notice nothing new would be innovated , nothing new would be built and things would grind to a halt. Only then would women see that they need a real man and the value we have and tell all the sissies to man up , but in this orwellian world its going to take a disaster to bring this about.
A Cathy Newman type character would read that and say " so your saying women have no value"  . why is the agenda pushed on us and accepted even though everyone knows its wrong and backwards.
 
M wife was a man hater who did everything for me except wipe my arse ( or so she told everyone) an 80 hour week was balanced out by throwing my clothes in a washing machine (I bought ) ran on electric ( i bought) used water ( I paid for) and capsules/softener ( i bought)its not as she was walking down to the river with a scrubbing board  and she deeply believed I couldn't survive without her to the point she packed my bags and burned a load of my stuff ( even though i pad for the house 100%) 
Now she sees the reality of the situation she's the victim who cant cope alone ( even though I give her 500 a month) and let her use my house rent free, that she needs a 110/-10% divorce settlement because shes a fragile woman who can't work , playing both sides of the coin . If she fails society will look after her , if she works she gets preferential treatment , if she loses the divorce courts will sort her out . This kind of safety net and media bile is ruining what could be perfect women .
 
since I left , I do all my own housework , did 5 bbing comps last yr, got a new bird , get to choose all my own shopping , watch what i want on TV , still work 40-80 hours a week so apart from 2 or so hours of housework a week I haven't really noticed any loss of benefits. I have no idea why people value their own self worths above others and value others peoples worth well below there's without sitting back and assessing things fairly. The subversion is strong . 
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 17:08:52 (permalink)
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 but a MAN and even that term/word is losing it's meaning and legitimacy, never mind what it actually represents. I want him to be a good PERSON and a MAN!!! (hits a crab most muscular)


in the next few years that will be deemed as bigoted . 
 
I dont see any way back to reverse the trend we are on , the west is becoming sissyfied .  Equality means to have an advantage , pointing out the facts is racist .
 
We will just become sperm donors as time goes on . I really wish all of these man haters would group together and form their own commune of equality , as times goes on they would notice nothing new would be innovated , nothing new would be built and things would grind to a halt. Only then would women see that they need a real man and the value we have and tell all the sissies to man up , but in this orwellian world its going to take a disaster to bring this about.
A Cathy Newman type character would read that and say " so your saying women have no value"  . why is the agenda pushed on us and accepted even though everyone knows its wrong and backwards.
 
M wife was a man hater who did everything for me except wipe my arse ( or so she told everyone) an 80 hour week was balanced out by throwing my clothes in a washing machine (I bought ) ran on electric ( i bought) used water ( I paid for) and capsules/softener ( i bought)its not as she was walking down to the river with a scrubbing board  and she deeply believed I couldn't survive without her to the point she packed my bags and burned a load of my stuff ( even though i pad for the house 100%) 
Now she sees the reality of the situation she's the victim who cant cope alone ( even though I give her 500 a month) and let her use my house rent free, that she needs a 110/-10% divorce settlement because shes a fragile woman who can't work , playing both sides of the coin . If she fails society will look after her , if she works she gets preferential treatment , if she loses the divorce courts will sort her out . This kind of safety net and media bile is ruining what could be perfect women .
 
since I left , I do all my own housework , did 5 bbing comps last yr, got a new bird , get to choose all my own shopping , watch what i want on TV , still work 40-80 hours a week so apart from 2 or so hours of housework a week I haven't really noticed any loss of benefits. I have no idea why people value their own self worths above others and value others peoples worth well below there's without sitting back and assessing things fairly. The subversion is strong . 

Im not just saying this doc but most of what youve explained is almost exactly whats happening to me now, ive been made to feel im the villain so much so that others seem to believe i am too, that post just blew me away ! Fck knows what im gonna do, again, im not lookig for sympathy here ( couldnt think of anything worse tbh) im just being honest.
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 19:38:13 (permalink)
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 but a MAN and even that term/word is losing it's meaning and legitimacy, never mind what it actually represents. I want him to be a good PERSON and a MAN!!! (hits a crab most muscular)


in the next few years that will be deemed as bigoted . 
 
I dont see any way back to reverse the trend we are on , the west is becoming sissyfied .  Equality means to have an advantage , pointing out the facts is racist .
 
We will just become sperm donors as time goes on . I really wish all of these man haters would group together and form their own commune of equality , as times goes on they would notice nothing new would be innovated , nothing new would be built and things would grind to a halt. Only then would women see that they need a real man and the value we have and tell all the sissies to man up , but in this orwellian world its going to take a disaster to bring this about.
A Cathy Newman type character would read that and say " so your saying women have no value"  . why is the agenda pushed on us and accepted even though everyone knows its wrong and backwards.
 
M wife was a man hater who did everything for me except wipe my arse ( or so she told everyone) an 80 hour week was balanced out by throwing my clothes in a washing machine (I bought ) ran on electric ( i bought) used water ( I paid for) and capsules/softener ( i bought)its not as she was walking down to the river with a scrubbing board  and she deeply believed I couldn't survive without her to the point she packed my bags and burned a load of my stuff ( even though i pad for the house 100%) 
Now she sees the reality of the situation she's the victim who cant cope alone ( even though I give her 500 a month) and let her use my house rent free, that she needs a 110/-10% divorce settlement because shes a fragile woman who can't work , playing both sides of the coin . If she fails society will look after her , if she works she gets preferential treatment , if she loses the divorce courts will sort her out . This kind of safety net and media bile is ruining what could be perfect women .
 
since I left , I do all my own housework , did 5 bbing comps last yr, got a new bird , get to choose all my own shopping , watch what i want on TV , still work 40-80 hours a week so apart from 2 or so hours of housework a week I haven't really noticed any loss of benefits. I have no idea why people value their own self worths above others and value others peoples worth well below there's without sitting back and assessing things fairly. The subversion is strong . 

Im not just saying this doc but most of what youve explained is almost exactly whats happening to me now, ive been made to feel im the villain so much so that others seem to believe i am too, that post just blew me away ! Fck knows what im gonna do, again, im not lookig for sympathy here ( couldnt think of anything worse tbh) im just being honest.

I feel for you mate ! looking back I would have handled things far differently though .  I should have called her bluff far far sooner ( 10 years or so ) and get her to realise that the relationship was far from equal , let her respect what she got,  what I did and what we did as a partnership. 
Not let things go on and on for years feeling like I had to stay there for the kids ( which I did ) but not fixing thigs earlier lead to massive resentment on both sides and as often as she asks me to go back and try again i've got to the point where I really dont want too. 
If I did and we got another 10 years out of it , me working and paying for everything I would still walk away with nothing but a bill if its 110/-10 split , so financially it only makes sense to go my own way and as early as possible.
If it was 50/50 like it should be morally then we would both have a vested interest in making it work and bringing equal equity to the relationship and making sure she contributed equally from that point on . But with her getting the house I would just be going back to be a bills/cost of living bitch.
My head is that f4cked up from all of this and I know this is wrong but the only way I could see some of this working is that if I didn't let her do anything for me at all but this would probably end up being like lodgers.
Wouldn't have got married , those vows can be twisted to the point where someone can do absolutely f4ckall and you can never leave them.
Stayed single for longer after the split .
don't turn a blind eye to greed/bad behaviour even if it benefits you slightly .
Don't compromise unless you willing to do it for life.
Try to fix the problems as early as possible, even if you come across like Victor Meldrew.
Make sure you do at least one thing together every week.
try and maintain something in common besides the children , because when they have grown up you'll be left with zilch .
 
 
 
 
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/04 20:18:35 (permalink)
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Blow completely out of proportion imo. Unfortunately you have to tread on egg shells with everyone these days!



I know right, Greggs released a vegan sausage roll yesterday and the anti vegan, right wing, EDL type went nuts. Its a bloody sausage roll, calm the **** down.
 

 
OK the picture is just a joke/meme, but there was really people genuinely upset about this  

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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/05 18:39:53 (permalink)
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Stop lying princess. 

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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/05 19:21:58 (permalink)
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Stop lying princess. 


I don't think the meme would have been created if I was lying.

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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/05 19:28:43 (permalink)
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Just looked it up and indeed you are telling the truth. 
 
This is outrageous. I'm going to complain to my local MP and maybe go on hunger strike for a week.

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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/06 00:11:17 (permalink)
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Well Greggs were clearly in the wrong and deserves the backlash tbh!

It should never have been called a sausage roll! It’s a vegetable pasty and everyone knows it! And this is the very problem with society. A vegetable pasty identifys as a sausage roll and we should all just accept it for fear of hurting someone’s feelings. B0llox!
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Re: Was i really being offensive? (Nothing to do with jon jones thread!) 2019/01/06 13:28:14 (permalink)
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Well Greggs were clearly in the wrong and deserves the backlash tbh!

It should never have been called a sausage roll! It’s a vegetable pasty and everyone knows it! And this is the very problem with society. A vegetable pasty identifys as a sausage roll and we should all just accept it for fear of hurting someone’s feelings. B0llox!



Can't tell if serious or not. 

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