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Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner??

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2008/05/12 23:28:47 (permalink)

Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner??

When you made a commitment to your partner (past or present) - was you 100% sure that it was the right thing to do?

Or, were there doubts, but you decided to go ahead anyway?

I've been seeing someone for quite a few years now, - although we've broken up and got back together a few times... - it's come to the point now that we either make a go of things *seriously* (house, kids the whole shabang) - or go our seperate ways.

Going seperate ways saddens me a lot - but then I'm not certain being her for the rest of my life is the right thing to do. I have doubts that we can make each other happy long term. I just don't know.

How sure were you about things before you commited?

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    Indianabol Jones
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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/12 23:30:46 (permalink)
    Having just had a near 9 year relationship come to a ****ty end, I can say I was 100% for it.
    Shame she didn't see it the same way.

    If you have doubts, talk to her.
    Worst thing we do is not talk when it matters.

     
     
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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/12 23:50:43 (permalink)
    this is one of the daunting realities of relationships for me.

    you get a good thing and you want to keep hold of it, theres always something in the back of your mind though about going elsewhere

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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/12 23:51:31 (permalink)
    I'm engaged to mine. Engagement is for that period when you're exclusive, but not yet committed to spending the rest of your life together. So i'd say we were pretty committed, but not, perhaps, enough to get married at that juncture?

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    Sessen Ryu
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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/13 08:53:27 (permalink)
    I have talked to her... - but I don't seem to be getting anywhere near drawing a conclusion, - she seems more sure about things than I do.

    ORIGINAL: swift

    this is one of the daunting realities of relationships for me.

    you get a good thing and you want to keep hold of it, theres always something in the back of your mind though about going elsewhere



    Yes, that's maybe it. Always wondering about what else is out there! Terrible really.


    post edited by Sessen Ryu - 2008/05/13 08:54:36
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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/13 09:04:55 (permalink)
    mate wondering what is round the corner is part of life im afraid

    when i got with my missus-been together 3 years now, we even said to each other we couldnt see it working but what have we got to lose.
    it has been rocky at times but thats life
    if it was always great you would get bored and go off anyway just for the thrill

    man likes distruction im afraid.

    life is to short to spend living the wot if life.
    just take it as it comes and if it doesnt work out then so be it. at least you have someone who loves you mate-be thankfull for that and take it to the next step
    in 10 yrs time wouldnt you wanna say you loved her enough to take it the next step.
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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/13 09:05:19 (permalink)
    yes its scary to think about it

    on one hand you might be 100% sure, and she might look and sound like she is, but at the bottom of her spiteful little heart she has that feeling that it might not work out completely, but then she thinks, fvck it, if it doesnt work out.. i get HALF

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    RE: Was you 100% sure when you commited to your partner?? 2008/05/13 11:57:29 (permalink)

    LOL @ CONS


    ORIGINAL: savageJ

    mate wondering what is round the corner is part of life im afraid

    when i got with my missus-been together 3 years now, we even said to each other we couldnt see it working but what have we got to lose.
    it has been rocky at times but thats life
    if it was always great you would get bored and go off anyway just for the thrill

    man likes distruction im afraid.

    life is to short to spend living the wot if life.
    just take it as it comes and if it doesnt work out then so be it. at least you have someone who loves you mate-be thankfull for that and take it to the next step
    in 10 yrs time wouldnt you wanna say you loved her enough to take it the next step.



    You're right mate, - nice post thanks. Many likes destruction - how true


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