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2018/04/17 06:03:57 (permalink)
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What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back?

Hey Guys,
 
Need a little advice on what you would do if you want to win your ex back, considering things about a week ago, and she was the one to end it. She's 24 and I'm 26 and we were together for 2 years. She ended the relationship because she claimed to have lost the spark for me. She said she loves me but is no longer IN love with me and that we could still be friends after the breakup. That's the thing though, I'm worried that if I remain friends with her, I'd only end up in the friendzone. I definitely still want to win her back but I don't know how to go about it.
 
Would appreciate any tips or advice!
post edited by Medblare - 2018/04/17 06:05:13
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 06:20:29 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby Medblare 2018/05/11 10:01:06
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She's told you how she feels about the relationship. If you've done nothing wrong to make her feel this way then I'd move on. She's obviously looking for something or someone different in her life. Most people have been hurt by breakups at some stage in their lives. You'll pine for her for a while then you'll move on. We've all been there.
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 06:30:43 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby Brett 2018/04/19 08:10:16
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Chest and biceps three times a week should do it.
 
Seriously, move on and don't chase her, instant turn off.
 
Best.
 
 
 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 06:58:38 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby Medblare 2018/05/11 10:01:10
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Folk want what they cant have, she knows she can have you anytime = not good for you
 
Change it, all you can do.
 
She may have a re-think, maybe not, likely the latter.
 
As said, we all been there.
 
I do have a mate that chased is x, got back together and eventually got married............she treats him like ****
 
But hes happy just to be with her
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 08:10:44 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby Medblare 2018/05/11 10:01:13
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If she says she loves you but is not "in love" with you that probably means she needs a relationship based on passion rather than love. Passion is inherently fleeting and it's unlikely she will ever be able to maintain a serious long term relationship with anyone if that's a requirement for her.
 
So if you are looking for a serious long term thing she's not for you, move on.
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 08:35:49 (permalink)
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Sorry but you can't make someone love you. It might feel tough but it is far better to move on.
 
You might also want to avoid the "Friend Zone" - it can be a stressful and depressing place. If you aren't careful you'll still have feelings and then have great conversations about a bloke she fancies while it chews you up inside. Just don't go there.
 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 09:41:06 (permalink)
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Dig her up for a start then get in touch with some sort of Witchdoctor to raise her!!! 

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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 09:43:58 (permalink)
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Don’t do it, be a man and be thankful you got out early rather than with baggage etc. In reality she probably has the horn for someone else.

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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 10:04:35 (permalink)☄ Helpfulby Medblare 2018/05/11 10:01:41
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Already some sage advice above, but just to echo it... you're better off moving on. I don't think I've ever maintained a friendship with somebody after, it's just cleaner to cut contact (if possible) and move on.
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 10:39:45 (permalink)
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Aye, better to walk away with your pride intact, never mind that "friends" bull****
 
 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 10:50:47 (permalink)
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Move on.

"Be adequate"
 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 10:51:11 (permalink)
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Dig her up for a start then get in touch with some sort of Witchdoctor to raise her!!! 


PMSL

"Be adequate"
 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 11:42:33 (permalink)
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You need to accept that...theres another d1ck stuffed deep inside of her on a daily basis! Bl0w j0bs, r1m j0bs all that sh1t is going down and probably some sh1t she refused to do with you all while youre j@ckin off and cryin into your j1zz stained bedding? Thats some real hodgetwins truth 4 u? U need to move on and if youre lucky she might hit you up one night?
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 11:52:08 (permalink)
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On a side note, anyone dated someone that was mates with their X  ?
 
I did once, strange experience. So obvious he still had feelings for her, and it became a bit tedious.
 
Took a turn for the worse one day when I found myself doing some DIY for her at her new house. He came around to help, both of us hanging feckin wall paper together lol, she must have loved it.
 
Never again. lol
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 12:20:17 (permalink)
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SeanR
On a side note, anyone dated someone that was mates with their X  ?
 
I did once, strange experience. So obvious he still had feelings for her, and it became a bit tedious.
 
Took a turn for the worse one day when I found myself doing some DIY for her at her new house. He came around to help, both of us hanging feckin wall paper together lol, she must have loved it.
 
Never again. lol


Bordering on cuckholdery that, I wouldn't have it, I also wouldnt have my woman being mates with another bloke i.e. having coffee or drinks together shyte.

Alt er mulig
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 12:44:16 (permalink)
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Move on mate, better things to come for ya
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 12:54:53 (permalink)
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You need to accept that...theres another d1ck stuffed deep inside of her on a daily basis! Bl0w j0bs, r1m j0bs all that sh1t is going down and probably some sh1t she refused to do with you all while youre j@ckin off and cryin into your j1zz stained bedding? Thats some real hodgetwins truth 4 u? U need to move on and if youre lucky she might hit you up one night?



Harsh but true. 

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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 13:25:55 (permalink)
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Chop off my testicles!
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 13:33:16 (permalink)
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You need to learn accept this. Plenty more sea in the fish. 
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Re: What Would You Do If You Want To Win Your Ex Back? 2018/04/17 13:50:14 (permalink)
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I'd just keep sending her a text everyday, or maybe 2 just to let her know she's on your mind. Maybe send some flowers weekly and in any weather stand outside her bedroom window and just watch. Show her your devotion. She's bound to come around eventually.

“It ain’t all sunshine and rainbows”
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