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2007/06/16 00:06:22 (permalink)
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What am I doing??

Here I am 24 years old sitting in my bedroom headphones on listening to sad music, looking at photos drinking, half pissed...

Yep girlfriend of 6 months has dumped me We finished 11 days ago, and tonight it has hit me hard think ive finally accept it that its over, I was ok at first deep down thinking that we're end up getting back together, but no she hasn't replied to my txts or phone calls over the last two days tho she was on msn earlier, convo went something like this:

Mark! says:
u ok?.......
Frillymilly says:
hiya
Frillymilly says:
yes im good sorry i havent replied
Frillymilly says:
ive been rushed off my feet
Frillymilly says:
i have to go
Frillymilly says:
i have no time to breath
Frillymilly says:
i really hope ur okay
Frillymilly says:
xxxxxxxxxx
Frillymilly says:
smile u make the world go round

Don't know why but its ****ed me up and rather she didnt reply as I was just starting to get over it, the spilt up was mainly on my part as I thought she was up 2 something and I pushed it to far

Dont know what to do? I just want her back, ive been so bored the past week or so, tried so hard to go out tonight but all my mates are in relationships or moved away, shes away with her dad at the mo and wont get back till 2moz afternoon and right now its so hard not to txt/phone her but I know right now it'll be the wrong thing to do, I need to give her time to think and maybe time to miss me....

Just hate feeling like this
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    TRAMP
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:10:04 (permalink)
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    chin up mate ffs.

    few years ago, my misses of 9 years fcuked me off...now that was painful.

    see how you feel in the morning

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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:16:51 (permalink)
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    nine years.. **** mate

    Just feeling a tad sorry for myself thats all!
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:20:39 (permalink)
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    The beer won't help that mate LOL

    It's finally arrived....PM Neb for swaps!


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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:22:09 (permalink)
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    We all have days like that dude, trust. Seeing as alcohol = depressant doesn't help either!

    Don't worry about it.

    What are you listening to? Try this, I'm loving this track:
    MIMS - Like This

    (some trivia: MIMS stands for "Music Is in My Soul)

    How about that then!!?


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    logi6260
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:22:15 (permalink)
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    Give it a week or two mate, things will brighten up, i had exactly the same, split with bird, all mates in relationship, nothing to do but sit around at home, only lasted about a week thought, soon got used to the single life again.....for a short while!!

    When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I have not a single bit of talent left, and I could say, "I used everything you gave me". - Erma Bombeck.
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:24:46 (permalink)
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    went thru something simaler a month or two back mate and posted up what was going on and some mt members had some real nice words of advice for me!
    i took on board some advice and what i found best was
    defo keep yourself occupied, as hard as it sounds and as hard as it seems call some pals have a drink and TRY and do other things, i was just sitting in my room feeling sorry for myself but when i saw some pals it helped! (i still thought about her but t least your not on your own.
    TRY and not contact her! again this is hard and i have to admit i failed bu it is the best thing and you might get her thinking, why has he not called!

    on the whole i would say go and see some pals, have a drink (dont get pissed tho, does not help!) dont call her but if you feel you have to contact her leave it a few days and wheen you do ask to meet up and tell her how you feel!

    best of luck mate!
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:34:34 (permalink)
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    Cheers guys just opened another can sod im to far gone to care right now........

    Well going out 2moz night up town with a couple of mates so that might help, made my mind up going to contact her on sun and see if she wants to meet up and if so give it one last shot, if no then at least I can let go and walk away knowing that ive tried.

    Cool tune! makes a change ive had it all 2night james blunt "goodbye my lover", lemar "its not that easy" you name it ive played it!
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 00:41:50 (permalink)
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    The worst thing for me was thinking great ill ring some pals, go out for a few beers and live the single life again, then ringing the said pals to find that they were busy, working etc, So depressing when you realise that youve got nothing to do for the night, think this is mostly down to the fact that if your not down the gym or with your mates then your usually with your missus, bit of a downer to find youve suddenly got a big gap in your social life that you cant fillm but trust me it passes, sooner than you think, just a case of adjusting to the situation.

    Good luck though mate when you do speak to her, hope it goes your way.

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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 01:00:06 (permalink)
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    Good luck trying to get her back bro
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 02:39:31 (permalink)
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    i split with the GF on the weekend. We lived together for round a year too. I love her so much but meh! **** happens bud... after a very short while, it gets a **** load easier and you'll be happy again in no time. Go and ask another bird if you can use her legs as a scarf
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 13:06:18 (permalink)
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    Tough one mate, lay off the drink and good luck with it.
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 19:29:28 (permalink)
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    Cheers guys! feel a little bit of a tit now

    Feel a lot better today still no contact from her or me....

    going up town tonight with a mate from work so will be good fun!
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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 19:33:54 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: trustno1

    Cheers guys! feel a little bit of a tit now

    Feel a lot better today still no contact from her or me....

    going up town tonight with a mate from work so will be good fun!


    LMAO, you tosser LOL, have a good night LOL

    It's finally arrived....PM Neb for swaps!


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    RE: What am I doing?? 2007/06/16 19:43:20 (permalink)
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    My gf split with me 8 weeks ago after living together for over 2years. As a result i have no money, no where to live, may lose my dogs, have had to get rid of other pets, have ****ed up medical school exam as they were 4 weeks after break up. I have also found out from mates she cheated on me earleir in the relationship. She is the only girl i have ever been with and i would have died for her in a heartbeat! Needless to say all this has hit me pretty hard. The only way i have survived is to keep busy, talk to people and go out with mates a lot. Just be careful to not use the alcohol to escape reality- thats the start of a slippery slope!
    Hope you feel betta matey!

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