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2005/07/24 17:20:13 (permalink)

What would you do?

I had an eventful friday night.

Cutting all the details, 2 things happened at work.

There was a scrap, i tried to stop it, a guy touched my face and i banged him out.

There was a pretty middle aged women who i was chatting to and shes seemed real nice, she introduced me to her daughter who i found out is a professional fashion model for models 1 (shes on their website, i cheked lol) and i got invited to her bday party the following week at the pub (im working there anyway though lol). But guess could stay after work and try to chat to this girl as she is v beautiful and id like to talk to her more.

However ive been threatened. Ive gurt my hand and a load of guys are supposedly gonna come down next week for me, ive heard it all before but i really cant be asked for agro at the moment.

Would you stay or go to another venue?

Any other options?
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    ToxicToffee
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:23:10 (permalink)
    i am one for avoiding confrontation, plenty more fish in the sea would be my suggestion

    better to keep oneself in tact rather than exposing yourself for a possible bashing just to see a girl.

    your an intellegent enough guy to make an educated decision on the matter, asses the situation, weigh up pros and cons and take it from there
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:24:44 (permalink)
    Dude did you get keep your SIA card after banging him out??
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    BritBB
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:25:25 (permalink)
    Thats what i thought toxic, i can just leave it but i wont get to meet a pro fashion model again
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    BritBB
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:26:13 (permalink)

    ORIGINAL: leanman

    Dude did you get keep your SIA card after banging him out??


    They dont know, they wont find out. It was self defense anyway.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:26:58 (permalink)
    fcukin hell m8, wouldnt of though you would back down from a few threats id saty, but maybe get an extra man on the door just incase?

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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:27:57 (permalink)
    They don't know yet you mean mate, ive known fellas to get pulled weeks and weeks after.Hope he doesnt have a bunch of witnesses saying otherwise
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:29:17 (permalink)
    sounds unlikely this is the kinda fella who will go to the cops over a scrap if he is threatining to bring a few lads down next week. and if he hit you first then self defence as you said so its sweet

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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:29:38 (permalink)
    I would personally go. I am not one for showing fear and by not turning up, you're being beaten. I would go and I'll bet they don't turn up.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:30:15 (permalink)
    Id stay for one more week and then go just to save face.

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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:33:16 (permalink)
    Stay and see it out, if they do come down and you are there then so be it, if they come down and you aren't there then they will just find you somewhere else, if they don't (and they probably won't) then no worries.

    I have heard the same thing time and time again after fighting with someone and they have never come back in 10 years of doing door work, in the cold light of day the guy you smacked will have had his pride a little dented, his face a little hurt and may not want anymore of it.

    Go to work, have fun and enjoy what sounds like a great girl's company.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 17:59:28 (permalink)
    I have an idea

    Im not letting threats ruin what i want to do, im going next week simple as that, i want to chat with this girl, if men come down then let them come down...there might be more than just doormen for them to deal with though.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:01:00 (permalink)
    you gona be packing twin uzi carbine 9mm's?

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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:02:02 (permalink)
    Hello,

    If it does go to the cops and hes got witnesses and some facial injuries then thier is a good chance you could be in trouble. Punching someone hard in the face when your a 17 stones+ doorman and making a self-defense claim stick would probably require many credible witnesses and for you to have recieved very bad injuries yourself to even make a Judge consider taking the bate.

    As for leaving the door at that place due to possible comebacks, well that could be a wise move if your intending to work far away from the door your on now. If you stay local then word could get round the local door lads and they could brand you a "shi*house" for not standing the heat. If you stay then yes the slim chance of an heavy comeback is present. Its a tough one to call.

    To be honest i think you acted poorly that night and get the feeling that someone "Touching your face" made the matter personal and all professionalism went out of the window. If you think you acted correctly that night then i would personally quit the doors as it could be the difference between a jail sentence or getting hurt badly yourself.

    As for the Lady, if she is interested then a swap of the mobile phone numbers should be enough to get things rolling

    Sorry for being honest bro,

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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:03:24 (permalink)
    Go there and watch your back, Im sure you've got more guys to back you if there arn't enough door men?
    Screw letting little kiddys ruin your plans, Chances are it wont happen anyway... Most people forget.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:21:52 (permalink)
    Im with Trident a little here bro....Ive had to walk away from worse than people touching my face...and if you did get busted someone touching your face isnt going to be self defence IMO

    Id hang around tho...and defo go for the girl big feller.I think whatever is done is done....the important thing is to try and not let things escalate into that situation again cos a) it expsoes you to some comback or legal/police type situation.....and more importantly b) it gives you all this stress, what shall I do type stuff
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:30:30 (permalink)
    Yep, ill go, ill try get about 3 other guys aswell as the two of us, then prob head off somewhere after with them or stay for a bit. Next week i want to enjoy myself.

    If people come then they come, we will deal with it. My hand should be 100% better by then anyway, i wont be using my fists if it kicks off, the guy has already been knocked out cold, if he wants to come back and now thinks we are soft touch then hes a fool because he will get much worse than before.

    As for not doing my job properly, thats nonsense. He had attacked the manager, his mate was running at the manager to attack (other doormen held him back), matey comes and brushes me in the face when ive asked him 3 times to leave already then started to usher him out. I will not tolerate people palming me in the face when im working.

    If someone walks up to you in the street and palms you in hte face that is assualt, he ASSUALTED me first, all on camera, plus attacked the manager plus his mate was going for the manager aswell...he ended up unconscious because thats how it goes.

    I dont care if im working or not working, i will not accept people palming me in the face, i wont stand and get assualted and do nothing about it.

    Maybe people are used to passive doorman, maybe thats the case, maybe people want to get trampled over but i dont...infact thanx guys youve made my mind up, theres no way im not going back to this place, im going back and im working and if any little c*nts want to come down after me then LET THEM COME, they will have to take on minimum of 5 guys and we will all be tooled up with more than just bars.

    I like this girl and im not missing this oppurtunity.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:32:42 (permalink)
    How where you threatened? was it heat of the momjent he shouted sommin at you, or did some fella come to you for a "polite" word!?
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:36:15 (permalink)
    is this in watford??

    too many pikeys and chavs for my liking there now. i've seen the place go downhill since i started going out there 7 years ago when walkabout was called bar risa, and ice o bar was next door.
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    RE: What would you do? 2005/07/24 18:40:01 (permalink)
    thats the spirit bbb. few dusters here and there never hurt anyone

    unfortunalty i am a very passive doorman. never struck out, dont think ive even los tmy temper or even shouted at some1 before. but i almost think that is a weakness on the doors sometimes. when u need to be very firm and get a big of agresion behind you, im not able to find that agresion etc. im to nice altho think this might have to change if im gona deal with this new door im going to. alot of bother down there, it was petrol bombed last year lol.
    post edited by Genics - 2005/07/24 18:41:16

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