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2008/05/16 14:31:45 (permalink)
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When somone is trying to get with your gf?


Basicly somone I know, (a total idiot by the way), told my mate that he could sleep with my gf any time he wanted. My mate told me but the other guy dosent know that I know what he said.

He rang my gf asking to meet her and she said she was busy and he turned up at her work the next day and she hid in the back when she saw him. Here again she told me all this but the guy has no idea that I know hes trying to meet my gf.

A few days later I was with my gf when the idiot rang her, I heard his voice and she told him to f off. The guy dosent know that I was with her when he tried to ring her.

As a result of this my gf has changed her phone number. But Im still not sure that Im doing the right thing by trying to keep peace by pretending with the guy that I dont know what hes up to. Part of me wants to go streight over to him and ask him why hes trying it on with my gf!

Abit of info about the guy, he trains, hes bigger than me although if I had to then Id fight him. Hes married with a kid although he always brags about how many girls he cheats with weekly. He shags 14 year old and hes 29. Hes very arrogant and nasty and no one likes him. Hes an asylum seeker from Iraq. None of this is made up.

He used to work for my dad but since leaving hes trying to get to me by trying to sleep with my gf. Should I just ignore all this? Or take it up with the guy? Since she changed her number onbviously he cant call but Im worried if he sees her out somwhere.

Another info, while he was working for us some teenagers told me he gave them free chips and I told them hed be sacked then, (even though he wasnt), for a while he wanted to fight with me and ever since then hes held a grudge.


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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:33:20 (permalink)
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    If your GF wants you to step in then do so.... personally I would tell a mutual friend to have a word before he crosses the line

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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:33:55 (permalink)
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    Can't say what you should do, but personally, I'd take it up with the guy.
    He's being out and out disrespectful.
    If he's a nonce as you say, I'd have even less patience.

    Sounds like an ego driven bully.

     
     
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:34:25 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Apollo

    he cant call but Im worried if he sees her out somwhere.


    if he does she will tell him f off as she hasnt entertained him so far mate

    chill!
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:36:23 (permalink)
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    So far Ive just pretended not to know anything what hes done. This is a guy who has a baseball bat in his car, I think hes a few pence short of a pound.

    Part of me wants to ignore him and hope he will go away and get bored, (to keep the peace), another dosent want to lay down when somone is taking the mick totally.


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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:36:50 (permalink)
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    I would go around and tell his wife what he is trying to do..

    Then knock f.cuk out of him
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:37:40 (permalink)
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    Well if she doesn't want to meet him, she won't. She has a mind of her own and she seems adamant to not meet him.

    Personally I'd kick him around the floor.

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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:38:03 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: john_cappa


    ORIGINAL: Apollo

    he cant call but Im worried if he sees her out somwhere.


    if he does she will tell him f off as she hasnt entertained him so far mate

    chill!


    I know she dosent like him and isnt a cheat anyway. Thats not my fear. Im just worried that somone would be so disrrespectful and in one way I want to have a word with him, but in another hes crazy and I dont want to make trouble.


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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:39:23 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: mick_the_brick


    I would go around and tell his wife what he is trying to do..

    Then knock f.cuk out of him


    I thought of that mate. But hes Kurdish and they have so many different nmaes they give to the cops and they arent afraid of the law. I dont want to get stabbed. I just wish hed vanish.

    PLus his wife is English, he probably married her just to stay in the country.
    post edited by Apollo - 2008/05/16 14:40:02


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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:41:20 (permalink)
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    i think get a mutual freind to have a word first, maybe then he will get the idea that he is starting to cross the line, if you go and confront him you will probably give him what he wants.
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:41:40 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: mick_the_brick


    I would go around and tell his wife what he is trying to do..

    Then knock f.cuk out of him


    Ditto.

    Or get all 32,150 members of MT to go round and knock on his door?
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:42:05 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: mick_the_brick


    I would go around and tell his wife what he is trying to do..

    Then knock f.cuk out of him

    couldn't have put it better myself



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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:43:55 (permalink)
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    he might stop if your gf tells him to jog on?
    if he persists
    1: have it out with him
    2: gf calls police and reports harrassment (police will visit him at home infront of wifey )
    3: tell his wife
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:46:34 (permalink)
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    How old (pray tell) is your girlfriend?

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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 14:51:59 (permalink)
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    You wont achieve anything by fighting with him. If anything it will make the situation worse.

    Just tell your gf to tell him that if he ever visits her at work, calls her or contacts her in any way again then she will report him to the cops for harassment.

    If this doesn't work and he persists then tell the police about what he is doing.

    Your not making yourself look weak infront of your gf by not confronting him. Instead your making yourself look the bigger and more mature man by keeping the peace and assisting her in dealing with him through the police etc.
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 15:19:33 (permalink)
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    Id smash him right up, sorry but this is just the way I am, if someone tried it on with my wife, knowing that I was with her & he knew me, Is smash him in!


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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 15:22:44 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Apollo

    ORIGINAL: mick_the_brick


    I would go around and tell his wife what he is trying to do..

    Then knock f.cuk out of him


    I thought of that mate. But hes Kurdish and they have so many different nmaes they give to the cops and they arent afraid of the law. I dont want to get stabbed. I just wish hed vanish.

    PLus his wife is English, he probably married her just to stay in the country.


    Stay as far as you can. I've had my run ins with Kurds in London... It wasn't pretty.
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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 15:24:21 (permalink)
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    PErsonally I would spy on him take photos of his cheating etc and send a letter ( Special Del to his wife ) with photos and or Letter telling her what hes been up to.

    Other Options are:

    1) SSh!t in a bag and wipe it all over his door handel of his house and car just smerr it every where on his house/car.
    2) Sh!t and put it through is letter box
    3) Do his Car Over
    4) Send Empty letters to his house with out stamps on ( He will have to pay to get them )
    5) Prank call him 10 times a day

    Im very exprecined in the above , Ps if u give me his number i gladdy join in LMAO ;)

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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 15:28:24 (permalink)
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    bat


    head


    together. lol



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    RE: When somone is trying to get with your gf? 2008/05/16 15:43:53 (permalink)
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    I would make sure as many people knew about him sleeping with the 14 year old as possible, shouldn't be much of a problem after that
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