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2005/07/31 10:58:41 (permalink)
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Would you steal a girl from another guy?

Ok, just as the title says.

Its always the case, every single guy has heard those fukin words before of 'my boyfriend'. Im at work and theres maybe 5-10 girls at this new venue over the course of the night who come up to chat to me. Out of all girls in the club therell be about 2 that i really like the look of. There can be 10 girls tellin me i look cute and should be inside instead of on door so they can talk to me downstairs...BUT when it comes to the 2 girls that i like...'So have you been away this summer on holiday yet?' (me)

'No not yet' (her)

'So where are you going then later on?' (me)

'Im really lookin forward to going jamaica' (her)

'Cool, how come you decided to go jamaica then, must be beautiful, youll have loads of fun with the people out there.' (me)

'Well it was my BOYFRIENDS decission actually, im meeting him there.' (her)

(Thos evil words have been mentioned, instant c*ck blocker, the word 'boyfriend' has been mentioned. So im like 'oh GREAT have a real nice time with your boyfriend' (but really i hope she has a sh*t time and dumps him

Then when i see these 'boyfriends', as is always the case with the girls im attracted to (the ones i find v good looking), the guys look like friggin geeks. I dont want to blow my own trumpet but i am so p*ssed off with this now after same words being mentioned for 2 weeks now, but these guys dont deserve the girls they are with, i dont think they are good enough. (Obviously only my opinion).

So...in light of these circumstances, ive always said that if a girl is already seeing anoter guy then i dont go there out of principle and respect for the other guy, he obviously really likes her and he got there first so its not fair that his girl cheats on him. This might change though now, it might have to. Im just getting increasingly sick to death of this, that every girl i fancy has a boyfriend already (they aint just sayin it either because i always do bit of scouting beforehand to find out if they single or not, and every time i get told they arent single).

So, should i start moving onto other guys patches? Would you do it or have you done it? Has the relationship lasted or just caused headaches in the long run?

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    kitty
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:02:50 (permalink)
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    Looks aren't everything mate. People also have different opinions of attraction. There would be no harm in talking to the girl and getting to know her a little better and see how things progress but don't get your hopes up
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:05:43 (permalink)
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    Maybe these"geeky guys love the girl more than they love themselves and make her feel like a real woman not just somebody's decoration?

    I wouldnt steal a girl from somebody else because that is such a selfish act and theres no way you can be sure you can make that girl happier than the other guy would



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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:08:50 (permalink)
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    yeah i would! if the guy was taking care of the girl real well, im sure she wouldnt stray away no matter how attractive the offer was elsewhere.

    damn, unless she says engaged, husband, or father of her kids and working thigs out, then i wouldnt, if its just boyfriend, then definately id give it a try. take things slowly though, get to know her for a while and then who knows.........

    Hazard a touch of narcissism without shame.
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:10:21 (permalink)
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    Well I can think of two responses to this Brit;

    1) It's fair game, if you come onto them, and they are disloyal to their boyfriends, then it wasn't such a good relationship anyway and better they betray sooner than later

    2) It's not fair to tempt them with your Adonis-like physique and stunning good looks, even the most faithful of women will succumb to your muscled, almost bovine body and wreck an otherwise long-term relationship.

    Tthink about how you would react if you had a stunning, supermodel girlfriend, and some even more attractive and desirable male comes along, perhaps SHK, and takes her away from you? Would you think "I'll kill him, the son of a bitch" or "Ah fair play mate, this betrayal of hers merely demonstrates how this relationship wasn't destined to last, in fact here, have a pint, I owe you one for putting me out of my potential misery"?
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:10:41 (permalink)
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    Yeah but kitty thats not really what im saying, the guys that these girls are with do NOT deserve them, simple as.

    Unless i think like shallow hal or something and think im lookin at a beautiful girl but in reality shes a fat minger, im pretty sure this isnt the case though Im thinking 'what the hell are you doing with him?'

    Im sure all guys have witnessed this aswell. My question is...would you just go there anyway, wait till theyve had a bit to drink and then make a move and probably pull them (this will inevitably put doubt in their mind over their current boyfriend). Or do you have the morals not to do that to another guy.

    All women are acting like sl*gs nowdays anyway, married women going out with their mates and pulling guys, offering other guys sex when theyve had something to drink, but would you act if you knew she was married or had a boyfriend, even in most cases if you think the girl is real beautiful and the guy is a right geek?
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:14:26 (permalink)
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    Tthink about how you would react if you had a stunning, supermodel girlfriend, and some even more attractive and desirable male comes along, perhaps SHK, and takes her away from you?


    Lol bruv

    No but seriously, everyone mustve had this before. But with me it is EVERY GIRL IM EVER ATTRACTED TO, any girl that has 'that look' that i like and i know they have a boyfriend without even bothering to find out, its just some law that seems to be written that any girl i like will either be married or with boyfriend...so ill expect to see matey with his girlfriend and hell be a good looking guy, into gym, etc etc but instead they are far from that? What the fuk is this all about? Would you just wait till theyve had drink and not let any little c*ck blocker get in your way?
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:16:57 (permalink)
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    I wouldnt steal a girl from somebody else because that is such a selfish act and theres no way you can be sure you can make that girl happier than the other guy would


    Yeah point mate, thats how ive felt up to now, but im just fed up of this every time now. I could walk into a club and point out the girls with steady boyfriends or husbands because i only have to look for the girls im attracted to, theyll be the ones with guys.
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:18:40 (permalink)
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    Why do you say they don't deserve them?
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:21:54 (permalink)
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    I personally couldnt be arsed with the hassle....if they chase me then I'd be up for it.Too much sh1t goes with that situation.I've done it before buts its hassle mate.
    Theres gotta be someone else u like!I've noticed u get a lot more offers when u have a gf.
    Almost like "if shes good enough then why arent I?" school of thought with a lot of them.Almost like they are trying to feel superior.
    Maybe alpha female syndrome!LOL.
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:24:37 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: kitty

    Why do you say they don't deserve them?


    Arbitrary i know, only an opinion, but they look like geeks.
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:25:09 (permalink)
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    Actually I've found the girls I'm most attracted to are either lesbians or have very ugly boyfriends. So sort of your situation. It's bollocks isn't it!

    To be perfectly honest if I was offered it from a hot girl who had a boyfriend then I'd take it. If she's offering then she's already been dishonest and betrayed her BF. However I wouldn't try and persuade her if she didn't offer it on a plate, Onizuka may prove too much for her and elicit an otherwise unlikely betrayl of trust
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:27:39 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: gripperdog1

    I personally couldnt be arsed with the hassle....if they chase me then I'd be up for it.Too much sh1t goes with that situation.I've done it before buts its hassle mate.
    Theres gotta be someone else u like!I've noticed u get a lot more offers when u have a gf.
    Almost like "if shes good enough then why arent I?" school of thought with a lot of them.Almost like they are trying to feel superior.
    Maybe alpha female syndrome!LOL.



    Offers arent a prob at all, just last night i got about 6 offers lol, (now my hand is bust im totally chilled out on the door and just being friendly and sarcastic and smiling with all the girls rather than ignore them.) Lots of offers, butits always from girls i have no attraction to at all. Whenever theres a girl i find real attractive, it will always be her that has the boyfriend, thats the rule it seems.


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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:28:00 (permalink)
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    BritBB have you ever had a girlfriend ? everytime I read one of your post on the subject it is always about some girl you want to get off with but you never seem to have much success. If your the hunk you portray yourself as then you should be beating them off with a sh*tty stick. Could it be your complete lack of respect for the fairer sex thats holding you back

    No biggie like, there are a lot worse things for you than using steroids, I mean I probably shouldn't have been smoking crack or getting into bar fights at your age TBH  - drab4

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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:30:20 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: BritBB


    ORIGINAL: kitty

    Why do you say they don't deserve them?


    Arbitrary i know, only an opinion, but they look like geeks.


    Tut tut. They're probably real nice guys
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:30:31 (permalink)
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    Brit mate, I think Kitt was being diplomatically brief about the 'looks aren't everything' part. I'll expand where angels fear to tread.

    Never seen your face, so I can't comment, but you are a doorman. I strongly suspect you're at an upmarket club that charges a hefty entrance fee. Now, some of these geeks in question are Hedge Fund managers pulling down six figures, perhaps more. Cut it any way you like - the lure of a life of ease, lunches with girlfriends at the Hilton and a BMW X5 to run around in all day, free of the need to work, EVER, is a powerful draw. Mate, I'm sure you're a successful doorman, but you can't offer those girls holidays in Tahiti every 4 months. Another thing - you work at a Club. Like any other venue when people are away from home but not working, like hotels, days out etc, and the pressure of life is off, people are going to get flirty - both male and female.

    NOW - there are some tasty women out there who prefer bulging muscles to bulging wallets. I think you need to stop confining your scouting to clubs - maybe you do it because these girls have to talk to you? You already know how to strike up a convo...and it's a fact that there Watford has a lot of singles, it's a big property rental area for those who commute into London. You've got the body, you've got the hunting grounds - so hunt. Gyms, Supermarket queues, shops - every time you step out of your front door, you're in the game.

    To answer your question....no, I probably wouldn't flirt knowingly with another guy's girl. Long term thinking...I'd have some big suspicions about a girl who was back out playing the field already, and had NOT broken up with him yet. Is she going to fool around on ME as well a few months down the line??

    Happy hunting mate,


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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:30:35 (permalink)
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    So take one of the ones u think "isnt appropriate" take her our for a meal,act like a real gent and see the others come swarming.
    Like i said the really attractive ones will want to know what they are missing out on and will try to pull u.
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:30:51 (permalink)
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    However I wouldn't try and persuade her if she didn't offer it on a plate


    They wont offer it if they are with another guy UNLESS theyve had drink, then theyll prob start offering everyone anyway lol if their boyfriend aint there. But thats what im saying, is it worth keeping the good morals and not trying your luck even if it makes you feel depressed that you arent at least trying to go for the girl you like?
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:31:41 (permalink)
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    it aint your palce to decide if her realtionship is working or not bro,but dont be sucked in women always give it im not understood or oh he is this and that,when did you ever meet a women that said oh my ex was agreat guy it just didnt work out.
    besides if they will do the dirty on him they aint worth knowing.

    tbh when im in a realstionship you always hear about some single guy at work who sniffs around all the women in realationship or not.
    loads of single women in the world why not find some
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    RE: Would you steal a girl from another guy? 2005/07/31 11:32:58 (permalink)
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    To answer your question....no, I probably wouldn't flirt knowingly with another guy's girl. Long term thinking...I'd have some big suspicions about a girl who was back out playing the field already, and had NOT broken up with him yet. Is she going to fool around on ME as well a few months down the line??


    Yep I agree with that.
    post edited by gripperdog1 - 2005/07/31 11:33:16
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