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2006/07/17 20:10:49 (permalink)
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i was held back from hitting him

i think you may off seen my post about rob well he was back at my gym and all went well done my workout relaxed a bit next to reception, rob is staff off this gym and when someone get on my nerves i let them know, so he walked passed me saying "how is your crap workouts getting on" in a very nasty way i said "how much more of a bastard can you be" he came up and said your crap at everything in this gym thats when i fliped i nearly got a roundhouse kick to his head, but somone held me back a guy called chris which is staff good friend of mine, now im 200lbs twice the size of rob, i managed him to get a bollocking from head of gym. shall i report this as harresment or just bullying.
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    atkinson2006
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 20:15:14 (permalink)
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    ignore him. he is wanting a reaction from you, so don't give him one, so next time he asks 'you still doing that crap routine' tell him 'yes, yes i am'

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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 20:17:52 (permalink)
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    Better yet, pick him up.

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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 20:18:17 (permalink)
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    cheers for advice im fead up from this guys bullying stupid failed football player and frigin big ego thats why this idiot diserves the sack.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 20:19:22 (permalink)
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    i can pick him up if i was aloud i dont wana risk my gym membership and friendship with other staff there becuase there good except this pilak rob.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 20:22:44 (permalink)
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    how about you just ignore him in the future
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:08:12 (permalink)
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    i guess so but he always on my workout days judging me.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:10:53 (permalink)
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    takes a bigger man to walk the other way, plus this will do more damage to his ego than you can ever imagine, you have proved your point by being twice as big as him...
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:11:22 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: leanmachine

    i guess so but he always on my workout days judging me.


    judging or jealous, latter i would suspect
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:19:18 (permalink)
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    Have a word one-tone privately outside, tell him straight "your annoying me, dont do it again".

    End of.

    Always walk away, never worth it. If it is worth it, lol - you wouldn't let those people have held you back - trust me.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:22:18 (permalink)
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    cheers guys yer i will ignore him in future it was jst a the very peak off my patince with him.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:27:27 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: Big_Ad

    Have a word one-tone privately outside, tell him straight "your annoying me, dont do it again".

    End of.

    Always walk away, never worth it. If it is worth it, lol - you wouldn't let those people have held you back - trust me.


    Bang on ad, good advice.

    Id see him when its just you and him, make sure there are no cameras there though (hard to find nowdays but there are spaces). Tell him face to face that you want him to completely ignore you and you will ignore him and thats the way it will be from now on.




     
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 21:52:09 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: leanmachine

    i think you may off seen my post about rob well he was back at my gym and all went well done my workout relaxed a bit next to reception, rob is staff off this gym and when someone get on my nerves i let them know, so he walked passed me saying "how is your crap workouts getting on" in a very nasty way i said "how much more of a bastard can you be" he came up and said your crap at everything in this gym thats when i fliped i nearly got a roundhouse kick to his head, but somone held me back a guy called chris which is staff good friend of mine, now im 200lbs twice the size of rob, i managed him to get a bollocking from head of gym. shall i report this as harresment or just bullying.


    How? Make a formal complaint to his manager, his manager's manager, and even higher, as high as you can go in the gym. Keep complaining about how he is aggressive to you and puts you down in the gym, makes you angry and makes you aggressive etc and is highly unprofessional.

    If they don't take that serious at a high level and the consequences of having staff like that then they aren't a very good organisation at all. Tell them you are very influential with many gym members and could do a lot to damage the gym's reputation if this doesn't end, as you will only tell others the truth about your treatment.

    He'll stop if his job is on the line tbh. Next time he does it just shrug your shoulders and laugh and say, "Sorry mate, I know you fancy me and all and are in denial, but I'm afraid I'm straight - plus I don't like skinny guys with no muscle so even if I wasn't straight, you certainly wouldn't have a chance though. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll find someone who will accept you for who you are one day, skin and bones!"

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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 22:03:07 (permalink)
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    ORIGINAL: mad_cereal_lover

    ORIGINAL: leanmachine

    i think you may off seen my post about rob well he was back at my gym and all went well done my workout relaxed a bit next to reception, rob is staff off this gym and when someone get on my nerves i let them know, so he walked passed me saying "how is your crap workouts getting on" in a very nasty way i said "how much more of a bastard can you be" he came up and said your crap at everything in this gym thats when i fliped i nearly got a roundhouse kick to his head, but somone held me back a guy called chris which is staff good friend of mine, now im 200lbs twice the size of rob, i managed him to get a bollocking from head of gym. shall i report this as harresment or just bullying.


    How? Make a formal complaint to his manager, his manager's manager, and even higher, as high as you can go in the gym. Keep complaining about how he is aggressive to you and puts you down in the gym, makes you angry and makes you aggressive etc and is highly unprofessional.

    If they don't take that serious at a high level and the consequences of having staff like that then they aren't a very good organisation at all. Tell them you are very influential with many gym members and could do a lot to damage the gym's reputation if this doesn't end, as you will only tell others the truth about your treatment.

    He'll stop if his job is on the line tbh. Next time he does it just shrug your shoulders and laugh and say, "Sorry mate, I know you fancy me and all and are in denial, but I'm afraid I'm straight - plus I don't like skinny guys with no muscle so even if I wasn't straight, you certainly wouldn't have a chance though. Don't worry, I'm sure you'll find someone who will accept you for who you are one day, skin and bones!"

    mcl



    LOL - thats it, give as good as you get, but don't blow your top in the middle of the gym, stay cool.

    Be professional at work at all costs.

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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 22:35:26 (permalink)
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/17 23:07:48 (permalink)
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    sounds like the kind of person to go to the police if you hit him mate. considering your twice his size youd probably do alot of damage and would be done for gbh or something

    definatley not worth it.

    find out where he lives and wait round the corner with a balaclava on fill him in and no ones the wiser!

    ps only jokin, really its not worth it
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/18 15:00:36 (permalink)
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    lol cheers thanks for advice i need too cool down becuase of the weather and i have a short fuse so i guess i gotta get working on my combacks.
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/18 16:08:16 (permalink)
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    i would just knock him out, out side the gym area wait for him to finish work and kick him in he wont say nothing then

    The only reason why i say this is because it sounds like it has been going on for a while and you will just get more and more wound up about it. Sort him out and you will feel better
    post edited by DEAD_WEIGHT - 2006/07/18 16:09:46
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/18 16:11:46 (permalink)
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    I understand walking away, and it's what i usually do. But you say bigger, they say wimp. It's a double edged sword
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    RE: i was held back from hitting him 2006/07/18 16:25:20 (permalink)
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    Just point at him and call him something stupid like 'knob cheese' and laugh at him, then carry on training.

    Mug him off, he sounds like a tool.
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